My Happy Christian Marriage

12/26/2025

Love gives room, grace, and consistency. If it's breaking you instead of building you, it might not be the love you were promised.

12/25/2025

If your love disappears when you’re rejected, was it ever love to begin with? Real love doesn’t have an "off switch" based on how someone treats you. It’s steady, consistent, and unconditional.

12/24/2025

Most people chase butterflies, but true love is a choice. Here are the two sides of the "coin" that define real, unconditional love. Is your relationship built on feelings or action?

12/22/2025

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I pray more people will understand what love really means

Many believe love is just a fleeting feeling, full of butterflies and excitement. But the truth is, while feelings stem from love, they don't define its core...

12/21/2025

You need to be brutally honest about your motivation. Are you stepping up as a dad and a husband because you genuinely believe it is what God requires of you, or are you doing it transactionally so she will come back? If your goal is manipulation, she will sense it and instinctively reject it. Focus on letting God change you first.

12/20/2025

When your marriage is struggling, it's easy to let your entire self-worth feel fragile. But your value is not tied to your marriage or her approval. Your identity is found in who God created you to be and the purpose He designed for you. Stop chasing approval and start focusing on that truth.

12/18/2025

She's not being difficult—she's protecting herself. When you start making surface-level changes, she sees it as either too little, too late, or a test of your consistency. The deep pain was crossed months ago. Your consistency is the only proof that your new treatment is permanent.

12/17/2025

Trying to win back your wife? Listing what they will lose (logic, finances, children, etc.) is ineffective. Your spouse is leaving because they feel emotionally unsafe, unseen, or disrespected, not because they forgot the good times.

12/13/2025

A woman pulling away or seeking separation is always rooted in her no longer feeling emotionally safe, leading her to protect herself by believing she will be better and safer alone.

12/11/2025

Don’t let this destroy your marriage! The #1 Cause of Divorce And How to Stop It BEFORE It Starts

The NUMBER ONE CAUSE OF DIVORCE isn't infidelity, money fights, or growing apart. Research shows 73% of divorced couples blame one thing: lack of commitment....

12/09/2025

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12/09/2025

Learn the critical difference between intention (love) and interpretation (respect) in a relationship. We break down the powerful analogy: if love is a letter written in one language, and he only reads another, your message is lost. Discover why a man's sense of identity is tied to feeling capable and trusted, and how to stop inadvertently sending the wrong signal.