11/28/2025
Some milestones don’t look the way we imagined they would.
For many families, a first birthday cake is flour and frosting and smeared laughter.
For us — it was ground beef, topped with mashed potatoes like frosting.
It was cautious. Creative. Safe.
A celebration shaped by love and survival.
And when my middle child turned one?
Her cake was a decorated cardboard box, because she had zero safe solids.
Hours spent trialing, failing, grieving, hoping… it all sat in the background of that moment.
These milestones are huge — even when they look different.
Even when they carry just as much fear as joy.
The holidays bring all of this up again for so many families living with FPIES or limited safe foods:
• adapting every recipe
• changing tradition to protect your child
• managing the looks, the questions, the “just one bite” pressure
• grieving the vision you once had, while fiercely loving the one you’re living
I know what that season feels like because I lived it.
I remember the emotional load, the planning, the decisions no one saw.
I remember how heavy joy could feel.
And I’ve been building something to help — a resource made for families navigating the holidays with allergies, fear, resilience, and love.
It’s coming soon.
But you don’t have to wait to get support.
💛 If you need guidance with food trials, safety planning, or navigating the system — I offer FPIES consultations from a nursing perspective.
💛 If you’re carrying grief, anxiety, resentment, hope, fear, pride — and you need a place to process it — I provide nurse psychotherapy grounded in lived experience, evidence, and compassion.
You deserve support through the hard parts and the hopeful ones.
✨ Work with me: mindfullynursed.janeapp.com
✨ Resource announcement coming shortly.
You’re not doing this alone — not anymore.