02/13/2026
Welcome to Friday the 13th...THE DAY OF THE GODDESS ✨️✨️✨️
Friday the 13th is one of the 'luckiest' days of the year. Lore tells us that many moons ago, this auspicious day was a time to honour the goddess and celebrate the beauty of the divine feminine. Whole communities would gather (both men and women) to celebrate and honour the cycles of life, creativity, beauty, wisdom, and nourishment that the feminine brings to the table.
Additionally, Friday is 'Venus" day, the planet of feminine energy, and 13 is a feminine number that guides us to tap into our intuition, recognize the blessings in our lives, and flow into alignment. The moon has 13 cycles per year, as does a woman.
Then the church and patriarchy stepped in and as we slowly moved into a society of suppression, Friday the 13th twisted around into an "unlucky" day.
One story for you...Freyja is a Norse goddess who the Norse and Germanics were said to celebrate on Friday the 13th. It's even said that Friday was named after her.
She is the goddess of love, beauty, s*x, fertility, war, death, and witchcraft. When the church took hold - a powerful woman full of s*x and magic, everyone be scared!!! - she was demonized and there are several different written accounts of how this picture was painted, as the church no longer wanted her worshipped.
Author Charles Panati wrote, "Fr**ga (Freyja) was banished in shame to a mountaintop and labeled a witch. It was believed that every Friday, the spiteful goddess convened a meeting with eleven other witches, plus the devil – a gathering of thirteen – and plotted ill turns of fate for the coming week. For many centuries in Scandinavia, Friday was known as “Witches’ Sabbath.""
Early Christianity really had a hate on for Fridays. They have said many of the terrible things, from the crucifixion of Jesus to Eve tempting Adam, happened on a Friday, and in Rome and Britain, they executed people on Fridays.
This is just a glimpse into the doorway of the rabbit hole and there's some fascinating reading you can do if you're interested. Even with the Pagan and Wiccan beliefs around the number 13 itself.
Now, some folks can get really hot under the collar as soon as we talk about Christianity or patriarchy, that we're somehow shaming all Christians or all men. That's absolute bu****it. (And as a sidenote, modern feminism is also a system of oppression, control, and division, so it shows up in many forms.)
We have to be able to look at history and name the systems and structures that have contributed to the harm we continue to live out in modern times so that we can name it and then do the inner work to change it. Because it's the inner work that makes the real difference in the outer world. There's no shame or guilt to be had here. I love all people of all walks of life. But will never stop speaking out - and more importantly, commit to doing the work - about transforming systems of oppression, especially ones that have impacted my own lived experiences.
So I invite you to drop the superstitions and welcome the love and wisdom of the divine feminine into your heart 💖💕
And if you still believe this to be an unlucky day and unlucky things happen, you received a great lesson in manifesting your reality 😉
Much love!