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04/16/2026

It’s 9 years today that you left us Mom; the start of this grief journey that has shaped these years, the era of death and survival.
I know so much more about you now, I understand you so much more. You were a tight lipped enigma I tell ya, but finally understanding your trauma helped me let go of so much of my own. In many ways my grief for you,as much as your loss was abrupt and mind bending, was put on a shelf a bit as my focus switched to Dad, helping him through his illness and when I lost him I thought the grief for him would break me. All the while I still felt you, I tried to look more deeply into your patterns to understand my own. Finding and connecting with your son Tad gave me so much; a massive piece of the puzzle fell into place and a connection with my big brother that fills my heart with joy. I know how happy this makes you, I know there are no mistakes and I know how healed and joyful you are now. This alone gives me such comfort. I am wildly grateful to you for all that you’ve given me and for being the best grandmother to my kids that there ever could be. Miss you Mom⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️💖

04/03/2026

Wishing this beauty, my baby Delaney Ann a very Happy 31st Birthday! My girl, it’s been a frickin hard year, your first birthday without Daddio, but I thank you daily for your humour (so like his) and your heart. I love your ability to embrace life, to forgive, to always try to see the lighter side of life and your beautiful soul of course. You are one of my biggest gratitudes and I can’t wait to see you once you get your butt on a plane home. Happy Happy Birthday Laney Lou♥️🌷⭐️🌞

03/04/2026

Went into Nature’s church this morning to worship at the feet of the Ancients. To think what these trees have seen…our human nonsense means nothing to them and that brings me huge comfort.🌲🌳🌲🌳

03/03/2026

This gorgeous young woman in the middle of my girls is Tiann …,my niece and today is her birthday! What a gift she is to our family as are her Mom and Dad! Tiann, I am wishing you the Happiest of Birthdays with armfuls of hugs and blessings. You are such a bright light and how proud I am to call you my niece! I love you♥️💖♥️💖♥️

02/26/2026

I sit here, marvelling at the warm late February weather; bumblebees bumble around me, the birds sing from the Hawthorne tree and this boy Sméagol keeps me company.
Days like today feel like anything is possible even amidst the clatter and clang of current affairs.
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I’m doing ok right now, right here, this morning.
Time truly does heal.
But man oh man it’s been brutal. Loss changes everything, your life, your routines, your security and your literal brain patterns. So I’ve just learned to quiet my life, to slow down and allow new cycles to emerge. And I have found such beauty in grief, in the honour of loving someone so fiercely and then surviving when they leave. To honour that sacred contract of being the one that stayed, to learn to live again, in the newest possible ways is so damn beautiful.To re-discover myself is a trip I tell you. At first it was horrific to go from being a “We” to just a “Me”…But I’m doing it.
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So I sit on the front step, feeling Spring waking up, feeling hopeful and sometimes even happy. Never doubt that my guy is ever,ever off my mind, he walks with me everywhere, sometimes with a dialogue that makes me laugh out loud (his Dad jokes still abound!)…. But I am still walking, one step at a time, one breath at a time, still here.
Blessings Beauties.🌳🌝⭐️🪾

12/24/2025

12/24/2025

Growing up in the Gulf Islands in the 70’s and 80’s it truly was the Wild West era of parenting; for example, The annual Santa Ship. This tradition, starting in Washington in the 20’s ,was the highlight for many children during Christmas and they added the Gulf Islands to their route.
Now I can’t even describe accurately the mix of excitement and sheer terror that this event wrought in me. Santa, presents and candy of course brought excitement but Santa was also accompanied by pirates and by the time the ship got through all the San Juan Islands and then the other Gulf Islands,Saturna being the last stop later in the day, said pirates were knee deep in holiday cheer. So imagine this lovely ship pulling into the wharf, the had a cannon that shot tennis balls into the air, inebriated pirates pouring off the boat roaring and laughing. They were known to grab the teenage girls and women and drag them onto the ship, so it was accompanied by crazy laughter and screams, all in good fun I’m sure but to a little kid that s**t was absolutely TERRIFYING!
Santa was always lovely, even if his breath smelt like Daddy’s on a Friday night. The pirates would tease you with their swords or pistols, I know they were all kind volunteers for the JayCee’s but man oh man, I can still remember the extreme emotions of that day. Wild Christmas for sure!
So on the Christmas Eve Day I hope there is peace, laughter and sharing of good memories! Merry Christmas to all!!
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12/22/2025

Wishing all a Happy Solstice and Blessed Yule….welcome back Light, let’s look to the end of this year with hope in our hearts. 💚🌞🎄

10/03/2025

I had a session with Coco Jones yesterday (my best fu***ng friend) ; how do I even describe these sessions she does? The deep healing she facilitates, the way she connects with my ancestors, my loved ones, my guides all while soothing my battered and bruised soul. Through drumming, prayers, different aromatics and incantations she took me to a place a profound healing, when I came back from it I felt so much restoration and peace. Thank you Cokey, as always for being there for me. I’m telling you people, I highly recommend her!🙏🏼🍁🐉🐦‍🔥🖤🩵

10/03/2025

It’s taken a few days to even begin processing the weekend we had. We took Steve to some of his favourite places on Saturna, it’s the first time I’ve been over with all the kids, without him. Memories and time lines collided, my own childhood, my parents, my guy and our courtship. It could have broken me but for the magic of that wonderful community who always seems to step up and be amazing.
The way everyone pitched in for a beautiful potluck, to the hugs, heartfelt condolences, sharing of memories (Red Pony Club Kevin), the fact that Steve’s siblings came over for the day and the fact that Steve and I are still remembered over there.
What a joy to see the kids completely at home, connecting in their own way to the special energy that is that isle.
A part of me was dreading the trip, to what might be the finality of an era but with such memories, with such joys that are still palpable, I know that I will always be able to feel that, if even for a weekend. Thank you Saturna Island and the wonderful people that live there. I am beyond grateful.🙏🏼🌲💚

09/27/2025

Ah….Saturna, it’s so good to be here, already greeted by this lovely guy, chilling off the deck. Home.♥️

09/11/2025

I just saw a post with a term called “Lifequake”…. When an event turns your life upside down and shakes things up but other things grow out of the aftermath. Just like wildfires often bring the most incredible growth of fireweed, my life is producing strange and lovely things. Kendall and her cats are currently living in my office,Kitten Bitten is now the Queen of Tarot and as I sit typing this she slumbers on my crystals and a tree frog croaks outside the door. All my kids have had to come home again but this feels so right, especially for me.
Just as I found out about my big brother Tad 3 months after my Dad died, we found out that my Mom also had a baby girl she gave up for adoption, three months after Steve died,so I had a big sister too. Unfortunately she passed two years ago, her name was Vicki but I was connected through my beautiful niece Tiann to her lovely daughter Becca, another branch of the family tree suddenly sprouted after loss. I so look forward to meeting her, her brother Zach and their children, MORE FAMILY TO LOVE!
I find I have even more compassion for my mysterious and complicated Mom, her traumas were so big that I understand her inability to even talk to anyone about them. But I’m left in wonder of the crazy ways that people leave and people come in. I marvel at the hearts ability to keep expanding, the way love can grow and outshine pain. I believe that’s the most important thing, to let love keep growing.❤️