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film featuring 9 home waterbirths plus a narration feature and two features on keeping boys intact.

Please educate on this barbaric device which is often inflicted on an "almost born" little human being.
10/31/2024

Please educate on this barbaric device which is often inflicted on an "almost born" little human being.

Dr Michel Odent's food for thought.Quote:  WILL DOGS SURVIVE HUMANIZED BIRTH? This is a follow-up question after the pub...
10/30/2024

Dr Michel Odent's food for thought.
Quote:
WILL DOGS SURVIVE HUMANIZED BIRTH?

This is a follow-up question after the publication of "Will Humanity Survive Socialized Birth"?
Recall that in this semi-clandestine book I provided several reasons to classify Homo as an endangered species:
- In the age of modern caesarean section techniques and effective pharmacological agents, love hormones have become almost useless in the critical period surrounding birth.
-In a growing number of countries, where caesarean section rates are very high, the number of children per woman can be close to 1 (2.1 are needed to stabilize a population).
Today, most human beings are not born among a wide variety of familiar (and therefore friendly) microbes. The programming of the immune system is at stake.
-Reproductive medicine neutralizes the laws of natural selection.
Canines have been the companions of humans since the Paleolithic eras. There are therefore reasons to wonder whether they should not also be classified as endangered species.
There are commonalities in caesarean section rates.
Today, among some dog breeds, caesarean section rates can be over 50% (Norwich Terriers, bulldogs, etc.).
It is becoming increasingly difficult for female dogs to find an isolated and almost clandestine place to give birth: dog births are becoming more and more socialized. It is also important to note the influence of the increase in the average age of pregnant females on the incidence of caesarean sections in both species. And what about the expansion of clinics specializing in canine fertility?
For futurologists, human-canine cohabitation is an inevitable subject." end of quoted material. Michel Odent
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Protesting obstetric violence in Vancouver B.C.
10/27/2024

Protesting obstetric violence in Vancouver B.C.

Our second Birth Rally at BC Women's Hospital, held on July 10, 2012 in Vancouver, Canada. We want to raise awareness of obstetric violence against birthing ...

Speaking up for the human rights of infant boys.  By the late, Jessica Austin, Vancouver,, B.C. Canada.  Quote: Why Circ...
10/16/2024

Speaking up for the human rights of infant boys. By the late, Jessica Austin, Vancouver,, B.C. Canada. Quote: Why Circumcision Debates Matter
by Jessica Austin on March 8, 2012 in Circumcision, Newborn Care https://www.birthtakesavillage.com/circumcision-debate/

Ah, circumcision, such a fire-y topic you are. Write an article or post an opinion about circumcision, and all sorts of feathers are bound to get ruffled. From accusations of bad parenting on both sides to claims that we should all just worry about our own children and stop talking about it, circumcision is something that gets people all riled up.

I think how we take care of our children is something that everyone should care about. And people should care about ALL children, not just their own. It’s by discussing our opposing views with one another that our own beliefs get challenged and we have to really take some time to evaluate if we want to hang on to our current beliefs and traditions or make space for some new ideas. In our current legal system, infant circumcision ultimately is the mother and father’s choice. I really think it is important to give the topic the energy and thought it deserves before making the decision to circumcise, and understand the implications of this choice.
Here are some reasons the circumcision debate matters:

Ge***al integrity is an International Human Rights issue
According to governing bodies such as Health Canada and the College of Physicians and Surgeons of British Columbia, modern evidence does not support performing circumcision for prophylactic health reasons
There are medical risks outlined by Health Canada associated with circumcision
Even though babies are inarticulate, they are still conscious beings who have experiences and form memories, and it is important to consider the psychological impact a potentially painful or unnecessary surgery may have on a newborn child
Fo****in has a purpose, and removing it has functional repercussions

Do women have a place in the circumcision debate?

It can actually be really common to hear people argue that the decision of whether or not to circumcise should be up to the father. Should women have a say over what adult men do with their fo****in? Absolutely not. Should they have a say over what happens to the bodies of their newborn children? I think yes, of course they should!

Dad’s are important. My own father is one of my favorite people in the whole world, and his parental choices definitely made a valuable impact on my childhood and who I am today. However, let’s face it: generally speaking, women are the nuturers, the caregivers and the ones who were responsible for baby’s health since the moment of conception. They have a mothering, natural, innate and vested interest in their son’s physical and mental health, including the impact of parental choices on his fo****in.

Sometimes it seems that there are more women out there who vocally oppose circumcision than men. I was speaking about this topic with a local “intactivist” a few months ago. He reflected that perhaps more women seem to vocalize the problems with circumcision because women have such a protective instinct built in to care for the baby they’ve been growing inside of them for the last 40+ weeks.

I read a quote the other day that summarizes part of why I am so passionate about birth and maternal health care:

“If we can fix things for mothers ~ and we can ~ we can fix so many other things that are wrong in the world. Women are at the heart of every family, every nation. It’s mostly mothers who make sure children are loved, fed, educated. You just can’t build healthy, peaceful, prosperous societies without making life better for girls and women.” Sarah Brown, White Ribbon Alliance

Yes. I think women have a place in the circumcision debate. Because I believe women have a huge responsibility when it comes to our children and our world.
Why might circumcised men be more likely to defend circumcision?

For circumcised men to embrace the idea that cutting off fo****in is wrong, they might think it means accepting that something “wrong” happened to them, that their own ge****ls are somehow not-quite-right. It can be much easier to say “Well, this is just what we do. I seem fine. We might as well keep doing it.” Like many things in life, often people are much more comfortable with status quo than really digging into an issue and forming an opinion based on facts, particularly when the issue involves their own personal experiences or their current belief system. This is not to say that circumcised men are inherently incapable of coming to intelligent conclusions. I’m just saying there is potential for emotional bias.
Debating circumcision as it relates to health

Here is a statement from the College of Physicians and Surgeons of British Columbia on the health impact of circumcision:

“Infant male circumcision was once considered a preventive health measure and was therefore adopted extensively in Western countries. Current understanding of the benefits, risks and potential harm of this procedure, however, no longer supports this practice for prophylactic health benefit. Routine infant male circumcision performed on a healthy infant is now considered a non‐therapeutic and medically unnecessary intervention.”

The prophylactic health benefit this quote refers to is the medical reason that used to be given for infant circumcision. It used to be thought that removing fo****in would prevent urinary tract and other infections in boys. However, current research no longer supports this. According to Health Canada, “The overall evidence of the benefits and harms of circumcision is so evenly balanced that it does not support recommending circumcision as a routine procedure for newborns”.

You may have heard of instances where older boys or men end up having their fo****in removed for a medical reason. This definitely happens, although it is rare. I like to compare this to performing surgery to remove any other part of our bodies:

Generally speaking, we wait for organs to show signs of distress before surgically removing them. This is because, although we can go on mostly fine without them, we accept that it’s better to have most of your organs intact when possible. Just like surgery to remove an appendix, something our bodies can function without, we don’t send our newborns off to surgery to get those organs removed right away to prevent them from developing a medical problem later on.
Circumcision and HIV

There were randomized trials conducted that indicated circumcision can reduce HIV transmission by up to 60%. This is part of the basis for a recent campaign to promote circumcision in Africa as a way to fight the AIDs epidemic. The study that’s being quoted here is an extremely controversial one. As outlined in a paper on the methodological, ethical and legal concerns of this particular study, there are problems that make its outcome questionable. Another research paper, from the Journal of Public Healath in Africa, actually shows that promoting circumcision as a tool for fighting HIV may actually increase HIV infections.

It is also important to note that studies looking at the rates of HIV infection in circumcised vs. uncircumcised males in Africa cannot be extrapolated to “developed” countries, because there are multiple compounding cultural and educational variables involved that also contribute to HIV risk which differ significantly between the developed world and African countries.
Male circumcision as it compares to female circumcision

The ge***al cutting of young girls is illegal in North America. In the circumcision debate, we often discuss whether female circumcision is comparable to male circumcision, and question why one is legal while the other is not. However:

Neither female nor male circumcision have medical benefits that support it as a routine procedure
All children have certain universal rights as outlined by the United Nations, regardless of their s*x, some of which routine infant circumcision is in direct violation of.

Circumcision as a means of continuing tradition, religious or otherwise

I think as a species, we’ve always been in a position to choose which traditions to pass on and which ones to let go of. My personal belief is that this is one that is better left behind.
Are you considering circumcising your child?

If you are deciding whether or not to circumcise your son, I urge you to take the time to really learn about the process and its risks, what the benefit claims and realities are, and its implications for physical and emotional well-being. Invest some energy into evaluating your opinion on the subject! I encourage you to do some research, and to talk about it with doctors, your peers and other parents, including those who’s opinions differ from yours. If you don’t have a son, talk about it anyway! And dig deep to make sure the decision you make is coming from a place that values the well-being of your son, and our world.

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Why Circumcision Debates Matter by Jessica Austin on March 8, 2012 in Circumcision, Newborn Care • 7 Comments http://www.flickr.com/photos/lsuchick142/ Ah, circumcision, such a firey topic you are. Write an article or post an opinion about circumcision, and all sorts of feathers are bound to...

Dr. Michel Odent is still teaching me.  Quote: THE DECLINING NEED TO SURVIVE THROUGH PROCREATION There have been two rec...
10/15/2024

Dr. Michel Odent is still teaching me. Quote: THE DECLINING NEED TO SURVIVE THROUGH PROCREATION

There have been two recent turning points in the history of Homo. Which one preceded the other? Is there a cause-and-effect relationship between the two? Are they two facets of the same phenomenon?
The first turning point was nearly established at the dawn of the twenty first century when the love hormones women used to release to give birth to babies and placentas became redundant. From that time, many babies and placentas were delivered through the effects of pharmacological substitutes for natural hormones. Others were delivered by caesareans. In other words, most women no longer give birth.
The second turning point came abruptly around 2015. While demographers and governments were going on updating their strategies for adapting to the continuing ‘demographic explosion’ that had begun around 10,000 years ago, the onset of demographic collapse took them by surprise. The media were not conditioned to assess the importance of the subject: conflicts between human groups, global warming, ocean pollution, the future of astronauts, etc. were sufficient subjects to ensure a solid audience.
Today, some politicians are beginning to think that it is part of their role to control this unexpected phenomenon. They seek the advice of experts who do not go beyond simplistic economic, financial and sociological interpretations. We should first realise that the power of governments on demography is probably insignificant. For example, in China, the politic of “one child per family” was associated with a growing population; today while Chinese women are encouraged to have several children, it is difficult to correct the unexpected demographic collapse.
The real issue might be a declining “need to survive” among human beings. This basic need has two components: surviving as individuals and surviving through procreation. We cannot ignore the current declining need to survive as individuals when considering the dramatic increased prevalence of self-destructive behaviours (suicides, drug addiction, etc.). At the end of the twentieth century, valuable epidemiological studies have detected obstetrical interferences as risk factors for self-destructive behaviours (Jacobson B, Nyberg K, Lipsitt LP, Salk L) . Today we need similar studies about the other facet of the need to survive.
What is the future of the human species if there is a sudden and profound decline in the need to survive through procreation?

CHEAT SHEET FOR PARTNERSBreastfeeding SupportThis is a brief list of ways to make a big difference for the woman who isb...
10/15/2024

CHEAT SHEET FOR PARTNERS
Breastfeeding Support
This is a brief list of ways to make a big difference for the woman who is
breast feeding. Do one, some, or all, everything matters.
1. When the breast comes out, you run to get a big glass of something for
her to drink. (Trust me, the minute the baby latches on, her throat will go
dry).
2. Find (or buy) a low foot stool for her. (Rubbermaid makes a good one and
Ikea has a cheap, functional one). Putting her feet on a stool brings baby up
to the breast so she doesn’t have to hunch forward.
3. Watch her shoulders, if they are hunched forward, she’s not relaxed. Find
some pillows to bring baby up higher or support her arms. She’ll forget
about this so you keep on top of it.
4. Tell her what you authentically appreciate about her feeding the baby.
E.g., Thank you for all you do to make our baby healthy. You look so
beautiful when you’re feeding the baby., etc. etc.
5. Put a snack beside her, she needs extra calories to produce milk. A plate
of sliced apples, toast with almond butter, cheese and crackers, etc.
6. While she’s feeding, scan the environment she’s looking at. When she’s sitting, you’re moving. Empty the trash, clear the clutter, mop the dust bunnies, water the plants.
7. Give her a shoulder massage.
The partner being an active participant in the breast-feeding support can
strengthen the family. Please add your ideas in the comments section.
A partner who actively works to make the breast feeding go smoothly is a
treasure.
Gloria Lemay

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