01/03/2026
Hello 2026. My 26 goals for 2026:
1. My heart to keep growing softer.
2. Keep showing up in all my “too much-ness”.
3. Continue shouting out loud about grief care more than ever
4. To keep saying the “f-word” because it’s funny - and technically a nervous system regulatory.
5. To care less about laundry and having a clean house and care more about filling it with guests, food, and joy.
6. To travel - even if it’s just as far as that cute bakery I keep meaning to go to
7. listen to more songs that break my heart and sing it back together
8. See the magic in humans - even when the world is literally falling apart, I will keep falling in love with this messy little life.
9. To prioritize therapy again.
10. To find rest in community.
11. To show up for others often.
12. To unlearn toxic ideas still floating around in my ever learning brain.
13. To learn more about what love looks like, what grief looks like, what joy looks like- not just for me, but for others.
14. To be a wildfire of silliness. To not take things too seriously unless it’s things that are seriously needing to be taken seriously.
15. To remember that time is the one thing I’ll never get more of. To spend it wisely and equally dilly dally, and be frivolous with the silliness of life.
16. To remain committed to the idea that romantic love is not the pinnacle of a life well lived - pursue intimacy in friendship, family and nature AND FOOD.
17. To eat deliciously, the pasta, the pizza, the strawberries, the kind of melon that juice runs down your chin, mint ice cream, squishy avocado on toast, roasted potatoes and Yorkshire puddings and dairy milk chocolate.
18. To use this phone less.
19. To love my children with the best of me and not the crumbs left over at the end of the day.
20. To give myself grace when some days the crumbs are the best of me. Have you ever had a crumble?
21. To read books.
22. To stretch my body
23. To play an instrument
24. To grieve unashamedly
25. To create fun things with no expectations or plan
26. To keep growing old