Luminesce Counselling and Coaching

02/10/2026

A very dear client of mine heard something from a famous prescher that profoundly moved him to take action, make life about your testimony and not your title. Testimony is about how you live out the things that really matter, and touch the lives that need it, in small ways and grande, every moment of every singleday . My challenge for today is to do your best to honour and live your testimony in the world you touch. You may never know the ripple it causes.

07/16/2025

One of the greatest joys I have right now is the pleasure of getting a latte with my daughter, finding a nearby park, and just walking and talking. Connection is one of the most amazing, and free ways to feel great today. Go spend some time with a person in your life

11/13/2023

One of the biggest challenges I see in struggling with their mental health is trying to change too many things in order to feel better. This most often leads to disappointment and discouragement. A better option is to focus on one valuable change at a time, gain success with this, and then add another change. Small changes done consistently lead to big gains in improving mental health , Illuminate yourself, Luminesce Counseling.

09/28/2023

Understanding that all our emotions, ways we make sense of the ourselves, other and the world around us are adaptive; ultimately their goal is protecting us from pain, or learning into meaingful actions. This understanding helps us with being less harsh and more curious and open to explore these parts. Openness is where change can begin! Illuminate yourself, luminesce counselling

01/18/2023

4,000 weeks, that's the average life span for most people. How can create a wonderful experience in that time? Stop obsessing about getting your to-do-list done, your in-box cleared, and your social media feed up to date. These often create more stress and the feeling like we are not measuring up. Instead figure out what ultimately matters the most to you and focus your attention there. Oliver Burkeman's book 4,000 weeks is a wonderful guide to get there. Illuminate yourself and free yourself from the frenetic race to get more done.

Nobody has enough time these days – but our efforts to cope with busyness just leave us feeling busier. Ancient philosophers and cutting-edge research agree ...

01/11/2023

As we start 2023 let's focus on creating a good life for ourselves this year. Not sure what that means? Check out Robert Waldinger's video (based on his research from the longest lived study on happiness) that lies out what is behind happiness and how to create it. Have a Happy New Year!

What keeps us happy and healthy as we go through life? If you think it's fame and money, you're not alone – but, according to psychiatrist Robert Waldinger, ...

07/18/2022

sometimes anxiety is best treated through attending to what he eat and drink on a daily basis. Watching our caffeine, alcohol, and nutrition can help with not experiencing crashes in our nervous systems. Paying more attention to how food and drink affect our body can pay off BIG TIME with anxiety. One persons enjoyable cup of java is enough to amp another person up and create an unsettled feeling which can lead to anxiety. We can all start looking more closely at our daily habits and make teaks as needed. If you want more information or support please do not hesitate to reach out, Luminesce Counseling and Coaching.

06/17/2022

A common theme driving many folks anxiety and depression is not feeling life has meaning or connection with others. Johann Hari in his excellent book "lost connections," points out that this is one of the key features behind people who are depressed. Hooking oneself back into simple things which bring some meaning or connection for a person is a great starting point. It can be as simple as deciding to do a meaningful task like organizing a closet or a starting a conversation with someone at the grocery store you're shopping at. These small nudges can fuel bigger shifts over time. Think of small ways you can stay connecting this weekend, Luminesce Counseling and Coaching.

07/20/2021

Letting go of the belief we should not be in conflict with our minds, and learning to accept, and work, and dare I say, befriend, those parts of our mind we dislike, can be transformative. Instead of fighting against our brain, and inner critic, a better, more compassionate approach, is to think that our critic is trying to help us, or feel more secure with our situation. Our inner critic believes it is doing us something helpful. Find a way to step back, and understand the critic along with offering kindness to oneself. Have a great Monday to all! Luminesce Counselling and Coaching.

05/27/2021

Author Adam Grant writes, in a recent article for the New York Times about the common experience of “languishing” during the pandemic. It’s the inability to stay focused, feel like we are progressing, life feeling less meaningful, and just feel “blah.” Grants’ antidote to languishing is we first acknowledge the experience of languishing. This can go against the grain of the societal message we should always be fine. Grant then goes on to say we should immerse ourselves in activities where we feel some sense of progression, even simple tasks like taking out the trash. Finally, connecting with people who can understand and support us makes a huge difference as well. Have a great Thursday!

Languishing may be the landing spot many people find themselves in after our period of collective pandemic grief, but there's hope we can all flourish again

05/26/2021

One secret to living a meaningful life is to just keep showing up, as author Steven Pressfield states in his book “The art of War.” I know that when I can get engaged in life by fully showing up then small moments feeling so much bigger. Have a great Wednesday! Luminesce Counselling and Coaching

05/02/2021

Judson Brewers new book “unwinding anxiety” is a must read for anyone dealing with anxiety, or I would suggest other mental health or addiction challenges. Brewer brilliantly explains how habit loops drive thinking and emotional states, including both healthy and the more problematic ones. Gaining self-awareness of these loops, and skills to work with them, can free us from the endless cycle of falling trap to them. I encourage you to check out this incredible book as it, if applied, can make a measurable difference in your life. Illuminate yourself, Luminesce Counselling and coaching.