10/31/2025
Feelings Friday.
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I was preparing my notes and doing some research my podcast later today, and came across this poster, which reminded me succinctly of something which I had lost touch with. Don't get me wrong, I still practice daily the remembered activity,but what I had lost touch with is how significant it is. There are multiple layers to what I actually do in a session and most of the actions or philosophies I share while in session, such as that my mastery as a hypnotherapist is to find a way to get you out of the way of you long enough for You to rediscover the solution to your challenges. Point being you are a higher thinking, creative, self contained bundle of experiences and knowledge.
The second which somehow I've let slip into the quiet is the fact that the majority of sessions I conduct, are spent DE- hypnotizing someone from their own deep trance complete with triggers and post hypnotic suggestions.
Short form: there are so many concepts, ideologies, and limitations which are completely false and erroneous, with which you have been leading your life with.
Where did you learn that to be Normal was desired, what does that even mean to anyone and how could you tell if you achieved it? Conversely what drives the brain to seeking perfect? What the hell is that? Perhaps not as showy as the infamous " Sleep" on stage, where someone drops, loose, limp like a rag doll into a chair, but as potent just the same.
A point of freedom for some, is the acceptance that we are all flawed, damaged, and messed up in our own ways, Largely in part because we learned about a world from people who were flawed, damaged and messed up as well. Parents, mentors, teachers, and friends, all not having any of their s**t together, and all contributing to your development.
In spite of the list of derogatory labels we could affix and most days do, we still survive, we still move forward and we still can brighten another person's day.
Step into the embrace, that you are who you are in these current breaths, that you did what you did in your past for reasons which were valid and justified in those moments of time, and are influenced by a long list of inherented absurdities.