04/06/2026
You know what's wild?
We're told to "fill our own cups" but nobody mentions that the cup has 47 holes in it and you're carrying everyone else's cups too.
So you try.
You wake up early for that morning coffee alone.
You take the long way home from drop-off.
You scroll Pinterest looking for "self-care ideas for busy moms" at 11pm.
And still - the guilt shows up.
Guilt that you're taking time away from your kids. Guilt that you're not grateful enough for what you have. Guilt that other moms seem to manage without needing so much.
I wrote about this - how to actually take care of yourself when mom guilt makes everything feel selfish
What's one thing you want to do for yourself but the guilt stops you every time?
https://www.kaylahuszar.com/blog/how-to-fill-your-own-cup-without-feeling-guilty