11/08/2025
There’s a point on the path where almost all of us get stuck in our role as a healer: the martyr/savior loop.
⚔️ The martyr sacrifices themselves — body, mind, energy, truth — for a cause or group.
⚔️ The savior rushes in to rescue others, pulling them out of their suffering as fast as possible.
But here’s the thing 👇
Wayshowers don't do either of those things. We don't use that frequency because they both sit on the control drama of victim and interrogator baseline.
Which means, the moment we step into the frequency of martyr or savior, we've slipped into judgement that what people are experiencing is wrong.
And in doing so, we strip away their choice — their right to align, pivot, or even choose suffering if that’s where their soul wants to be.
✨ Wayshowers don’t play in that field. ✨
Our job is to give choice and power back.
Not to tell someone what’s next, but to catalyze their own knowing.
The real question to hold is:
👉 What can I offer, ask, or mirror that helps them see their own next move?
👉 How can I empower, not control?
Because the role of a Wayshower is not to save.
It’s to be a catalyst of change.
Have you ever caught yourself playing the role of the martyr/savior? Did it benefit others? Yourself? If you've stepped out of that role, what changes did you see? Drop in the comments and let's discuss!