12/09/2023
Eight ways to make a difference for Seniors this Christmas:
The holidays put an emphasis on spending meaningful time with friends and family. However, as children grow up and move away or neighbors are no longer in the community, the opportunity for close connections becomes limited. Many older adults find themselves without loved ones nearby. Here's how you can help.
1. Check in.
Don’t forget about our aging neighbors during the holiday season. For those struggling with loneliness this time of year or missing loved ones, sometimes the thing they need the most is just companionship. While a phone call, text or email can make their day, visiting them, even for a short while, can do wonders during the holidays. You might also consider surprising them with a little gift such as tea, coffee or baked goods.
2. Assist in the shopping.
Christmas shopping can be overwhelming especially if you don’t drive or are not savvy with online shopping. Those with declining energy and mobility issues need help but don’t want to ask. Offer to shop for them or stop by to help them shop online!
3. Help them decorate.
Help them add festive touches to their home. Having decorations around can make the home feel cozy and cheerful. As we age, decorating can take more time, energy, and work so see what ways you can help. Offer to help set up their Christmas tree or add some lights to their windows. Unpacking their ornaments or Christmas Village pieces can spark stories and meaningful conversations.
4. Assist in making a favorite meal or recipe.
Spend an hour or two helping them make a favorite family dish or dessert to bring to a holiday gathering. Many may feel useless or burdensome if they cannot contribute to the festivities like they used to. Ask them if they have a family recipe they want to make or offer one of yours. You can also buy cookie kits and enjoy conversation as you sit at the table and decorate Christmas cookies.
5: Light up their life!
Take a drive to see one of the many the light displays around Niagara. Bring your favorite holiday music to enjoy, or tune in to local station 98.1 for non-stop Christmas tunes!
6. Fill their mailbox.
Our aging seniors love going to the mailbox and opening mail. Ask friends, church groups and family members to send cards, photographs or drawings to help keep their seasonal mail more upbeat. Send a handwritten message sharing a personal message, update, story or favorite memory. You can also help them write cards or letters to send out to their family and friends.
7. Include them in church, family or community activities.
No one likes to be alone for the holidays and being alone can contribute to feelings of loneliness. Invite them to church, or over to your home to watch holiday movies. Seniors love children so include them in activities whenever possible.
8. Give the gift that keeps on giving. Here’s a few things you can do all year long:
• Transportation to important appointments
• Take them or do their shopping & errands
• Deliver dinner
• Give caregivers a break with respite care
• Visiting
• Check in with them with regular calls
• Do minor household repairs