NEON Counselling

NEON Counselling In person & tele-counselling available. All ages welcome. Specialize in anxiety, grief, trauma Counselling and mental health. Child & Youth Therapist.

Anxiety, grief, trauma. Accepting new clients. No couples counselling at this time.

Monday Motivation!!! This weekend, I finally tackled a project I’d avoided since we moved to the Boundary: going through...
11/09/2025

Monday Motivation!!!

This weekend, I finally tackled a project I’d avoided since we moved to the Boundary: going through all of mine and my husbands clothing - all seasons!

Here’s what surprised me: once I started, the dread evaporated. I got into a rhythm. Of course, playing music at full tilt helped. When I finished, I felt lighter, proud, and oddly energized. That feeling wasn’t an accident—it’s our brain’s "motivation loop" doing its job.

We often wait to “feel motivated” before we act. But the brain also works in the other direction. Your brain releases dopamine when you make progress toward a meaningful goal. Dopamine tags the action as valuable and says, “Let’s do that again.”

A feedback loop forms:
Doing → Dopamine → Desire → Doing

Over time, this loop recalibrates the brain’s attentional filter and begins prioritizing cues related to progress and completion. Your nervous system learns, “hard + finished” = safety + reward.

How to use this this week

Pick one small task you’ve been avoiding. Do it to completion (even if imperfect).
Notice the shift—pride, ease, momentum.
Repeat tomorrow with a tiny “level up.”
That’s mastery, one notch at a time.

The price of loving someone and someone loving us, will always be change. Sadly, grief can be a side effect of losing lo...
11/07/2025

The price of loving someone and someone loving us, will always be change. Sadly, grief can be a side effect of losing love that can last.
If you can't understand why someone is grieving so much, for so long, then consider yourself fortunate that you don't understand.

We all have crows pecking at our lives and waiting for us to trip. Be an eagle!The only bird that dares to attack an eag...
11/02/2025

We all have crows pecking at our lives and waiting for us to trip. Be an eagle!

The only bird that dares to attack an eagle, is a crow and the eagle never fights back! The crow is the only bird bold enough to sit on the eagle's back and peck at its neck. Relentless. Annoying.

But the eagle, it stays calm. The eagle doesn't flap. Doesn't fight. Doesn't waste energy. It does one thing: It rises. The higher the eagle soars, the thinner the air becomes. The crow? It can't handle the altitude.

Eventually, the crow gasps. Loses strength, and falls off. Not because the eagle attacked, but because the eagle ascended.

Moral: Let the crows talk. Let them peck. You don't have to respond. Just keep going higher. They can't follow you forever. Your growth will suffocate their noise. So don't engage. Elevate.

- Unknown

Reminder! Not just for you, but mostly for me. 😉
11/01/2025

Reminder! Not just for you, but mostly for me. 😉

Happy November 😊 New month equals new opportunities, new moments, new ways to challenge ourselves. My challenge this mon...
11/01/2025

Happy November 😊 New month equals new opportunities, new moments, new ways to challenge ourselves.
My challenge this month is to finish shopping for the holidays and avoid long lines.

Calmlings with great advice. 😉
10/30/2025

Calmlings with great advice. 😉

The therapists are staying warm over at NEON Counselling headquarters. Please let us know if you need any winter blues c...
10/27/2025

The therapists are staying warm over at NEON Counselling headquarters.
Please let us know if you need any winter blues chased away, winter anxieties kicked in the keester, or a fur baby snuggle. We got ya covered!

Across Canada, kindness doesn’t always speak. Sometimes, it simply hangs quietly in the cold. Every winter, as temperatu...
10/24/2025

Across Canada, kindness doesn’t always speak. Sometimes, it simply hangs quietly in the cold. Every winter, as temperatures drop and snow begins to fall, ordinary people begin doing something extraordinary. They tie coats, scarves, gloves, and hats to trees, fences, and park benches. No notes. No names. No cameras. No questions asked.

Just a simple message tucked in the folds: “If you’re cold, take one.”

In Winnipeg and Regina, community groups have turned this small gesture into entire “winter wear campaigns.” In Victoria Park, hundreds of handmade scarves appear overnight in bright colors against the frost, waiting for anyone who needs them.

In Kamloops, one volunteer spends her evenings crocheting toques and scarves, then quietly hangs them on trees before the first snow.

And in cities like Ottawa and Winnipeg, “scarf bombing” has become a seasonal tradition, people wrapping public spaces in warmth, one branch at a time.
There are no collection bins. No paperwork. No requirements.

Just compassion hanging in plain sight, turning the harshness of winter into something gentle, human, and hopeful.

Yes!!!!
10/23/2025

Yes!!!!

There is a species of water beetle that regularly gets swallowed whole by frogs. And while there are a lot of things you...
10/18/2025

There is a species of water beetle that regularly gets swallowed whole by frogs. And while there are a lot of things you can do to keep from being eaten, once you're inside the frog, your options are severely limited. Generally, you get digested. But this particular species of beetle said, "You know what. I bet there's another way." And it started walking. In fact, it walked right through the frogs digestive tract and out the back end!
This is 100% true - look it up.
19/20 of these beetles will simply walk out of the frog unharmed. It usually takes them about an hour.
The moral of this story, yes, there is one, is that no matter how dark the situation, there is always a way through. There is always light at the end of the frog.

Too much of a good thing can be detrimental to us. Junk food, sugar, gambling, drinking, shopping... the list goes on! E...
10/15/2025

Too much of a good thing can be detrimental to us. Junk food, sugar, gambling, drinking, shopping... the list goes on! Everything can be good in moderation. That is the key; moderation.
When life gets out of control, and we all know it does, this is when you can reach out and ask for support. Friends, family or me.
***side note***
Women like a scent that lingers, not chokes.😉

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