12/20/2025
When someone truly loves you, intimacy doesn’t disappear. And I don’t just mean s*x.
They’re excited to see you at the end of the day. They want closeness conversation, touch, laughter, shared space. They show affection in ways that don’t always lead to the bedroom, because intimacy is about connection, not obligation.
When intimacy is consistently missing, it’s not because they’re “too busy,” “too tired,” or “just not that affectionate.” Those are excuses. A lack of intimacy usually means one of two things: they’re no longer attracted to you, or their emotional interest is already going somewhere else.
People make time and effort for what they value.
They lean in, not away.
They show love through actions, not promises.
If someone isn’t choosing closeness with you, believe what their behavior is telling you. Love doesn’t leave you feeling unwanted, ignored, or alone while standing right next to the person who claims to care.
