11/13/2025
Oh wow, yes all of this ♥️♥️♥️
SOFTNESS IS THE INVITATION TO DEEP STATES OF PLEASURE
We enter deep states of pleasure through relaxation rather than through contraction.
We enter deep states of pleasure through softening rather than through tensing.
We enter deep states of pleasure through allowing rather than through chasing.
We enter deep states of pleasure through surrender rather than striving.
For so much of our world the model of life, of love and of pleasure is one of tightness, tension and contraction.
This is so apparent in our bodies, in all we hold inside of us.
It keeps us in a space, and a way of living that's about constant alertness, constant guardedness, constant stress.
Taking time to contemplate this, I see how this impacts on love, on our hearts, on the way we love.
On how this expands into pleasure and the way we experience this.
Often with what we see, experience, perceive as a sexual blockage, issue, problem, pain.
We soon see that these journeys are about life, all of life. They have to be, as our sexuality, our sensuality, our eroticism and our love, are not in a vacuum. They're not separate, rather a part of every aspect of who we are, and of our lives.
With a soft touch, we begin to open.
With a gentle breath, we begin to open.
With a quiet sigh, we begin to open.
With a small gesture, we begin to open.
With a whispered word, we begin to open.
The softness touches us with safety, with slowness to release, to let go.
The gentleness brings us into presence.
This is what allows space in our bodies, in our hearts.
Space for the Yoni to open, softly.
Space for the Lingam to fill.
Space for the Heart to expand.
Space for the body to move.
Softly, slowly.
Yes, there's fire.
Space for the fire to burn.
Space for the earth to tremble.
Space for the water to flow.
Space for the wind to blow.
Space for the hard, the fast.
It's the soft that makes the space, it's the slow that opens us, it's the gentle that invites us.
Intimacy, our deepest longing, connection, our deepest desire, flows, dances.
In rigidity, in stiffness, we are stifled, small.
They are but a trickle.
Softness makes space for the liquid within us, the juice of life, the passion, the lava of our love, to flow.
I've come to see how when we live in the tightness, love becomes distorted, strangled.
What we express as love is so much protection, defense, guarding.
A heart that longs to bloom, to flower, to share its vastness, its tenderness, its strength, its openness.
For the inner channels to open, for the sacred nectars within us, the mystical waters, the sacred lights to flow.
Softness first.
Before the fire, softness.
That's the entrance to the portals, the vortexes, the whirls of energy.
Gentleness.
The channel between YoniLingam and Heart, Throat, higher, lower to the earth.
Softness first.
Then the power has a way, has a place.
This is what sustains it, rather than the hype we seek, a flash, and it's gone.
To be met, in all of the ways we express our sensuality, our sexuality, our love, our pleasure, our eroticism, our creativity, our vitality, our passion, our intimacy, our joy, our tears.
For these things to be met, to be seen, to be felt, to come to the surface of our being, to be tasted, smelled, heard, felt.
After being held so deep inside.
Covered in hurt, suppressed, judged, softly, slowly, as if from a sleeping winter, they emerge into the light.
Blinking, breathing, with all their gifts.
Offering themselves to us, offering us to life.
Then the fire, then the wild, then the primal.
Then the roar of the beast within us, the tiger, the wolf, the dragon.
First the release, the letting go.
The sacred key, softly.
And our eyes see, our hearts feel.
The ice melts, the forest awakens, the stars shimmer.
And we are alive.
~ Searll
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