04/10/2026
What would it mean to relate to other people the way horses relate to one another?
Friendship Groups
Horses do not simply exist within a general herd; they also form smaller, close-knit groups or pair bonds. These "cliques" develop based on individual personality traits, allowing horses to build friendships that are distinct from the larger group dynamic.
Conflict Resolution
When disagreements arise, horses use ritualised and brief agonistic behaviours such as pinned ears or threatening postures. Rather than resorting to violent fighting, these displays help resolve conflicts efficiently and with minimal harm to the individuals involved.
Empathy and Emotional Contagion
Horses are capable of mirroring the emotions of others around them. This phenomenon, known as emotional contagion, serves as a foundation for empathy, enabling horses to understand and respond to the feelings of their companions.
I started this week with a question: What would it mean to relate to other people the way horses relate to one another?
- perhaps we need to emphasize non-verbal communication - listening to others, being more comfortable with silence; recognizing the importance of reading body language and emotional energy; building reliable bonds, respecting leadership based on experience, and resolving conflicts through brief, non-violent gestures. And I think we could learn a lot more about the value of mutual respect and cohesion.