03/19/2026
Reassurance feels amazing.
For about 5 minutes.
Then OCD comes back louder… and now it wants more.
That’s the trap.
If I keep telling you “you’ll be okay,” I’m not helping you..I’m feeding the exact cycle that’s keeping you stuck.
Good ERP therapists are trained to sniff this out fast.
Not because we’re cold. Not because we don’t care.
Because we do😘
We’re not here to make your anxiety disappear in the moment.
We’re here to help you learn that you can handle it without needing someone to save you.
That’s where real freedom is.
And yeah… sometimes that means I won’t give you the answer you’re hoping for 😬
But I’ll sit with you while you learn you don’t need it.👊🏻
If your algorithm brought you here, you should probably stick around for a while and follow along🥰
🧠 DBT | ERP | EMDR�📍 Ontario | BC | Alberta
👊🏻 Frank Pew, MSW, RSW�🧭 Founder | True North Psychotherapy