02/23/2026
Hey everyone!
A lot of you have been reaching out wondering how little Elena is doing as I haven’t done a post here since early January.
Elena has been doing great, especially the last few weeks. Shes walking around so much, is eating more and talking (even singing) so much. After my last post on here, Elena did get another virus however she didn’t have to stay anymore overnights in the iwk and healed on her own at home with me. She definitely was sick but after two weeks she was back to her normal strong cheerful self!
This next part is a vulnerable post for me to write however I think its important to see that everyone needs a break to focus on yourself and how youre doing❤️
To be completely honest I (I’m Elena’s mom, Esther, for any of you who are new here) was completely burnt out after getting Elena back home with me from her long hospital stay. After the couple months of sleepless nights in the iwk, the emotional roller coaster from the last few years, new diagnosis the last year, health issues in both Elena and I, all of the specialist appointments, feeding pump issues (all of the time), all while being a full time single parent, everything caught up to me and I crashed. I realized I have just been moving on autopilot since 2021 and wasnt giving myself the grace and the rest I have so needed for years. After getting Elena home from the hospital the beginning of last month I realized that everything from the moment I found out about Elena’s CDH diagnosis at my 20 week ultrasound (in 2021) till now I hadnt stopped to process how this had effected me mentally, physically, emotionally. I needed to take a much needed break from social media to focus on Elena and I, she will always be my top priority. I will still be off of social media a lot moving forward but I’ll still give little updates on Elena through this page. I have found that staying off of social media, has had a lot of positive effects on my day to day life.
Let this post be a reminder to you to stop and to check in with yourself on how you are really doing. Do you need to give yourself grace? Do you need rest? Have you been putting things off that will be good for you in the long run? Do you have structures in place in your life that no longer benefit you? How can you put things in place for yourself to be recharged? Are you sitting at a table that no longer serves you?
We all go through highs and lows, we are all quick to talk about our highs but go quiet and shy away when it comes to the lows in life.
Being kind and supportive to yourself is the best thing you can do and how you feel will bleed into your kids, relationships, friendships.
I love and appreciate you all and always so thankful for you guys continuing to show up and support my amazing little girl ❤️