02/18/2024
Today a client asked me for a sip of water during her treatment, because she had an itch in her throat. Was I annoyed to have to pause the treatment to get her water? No, I was genuinely excited that she vocalized what her body needed!
We live in a world where overriding our body’s needs and boundaries is not only acceptable but actually celebrated. From a young age, we are conditioned to sit still when we want to move, suppress the noises of normal bodily functions, push our bodies with extreme forms of exercise, and continue to work when we’re exhausted or sick. I’m here to point out how NOT okay this is. These ruptures of our body’s boundaries have very real impacts on our nervous system, and I regularly see the effects in my clinic (and in my own life).
Being in my clinic space is the perfect opportunity to begin to notice, and vocalize what your body needs. Is my pressure 7% too much? 10% too little? Is the music a little too loud, or not the right vibe? Do you feel like your body might like an extra pillow under your knees? I WANT to hear about it! My space is a respite from adhering to the conditioning that you must override your needs in the name of being polite/acceptable/productive. Let’s work together to honour your body so your nervous system gets the message that it is safe.