Healing Matters Psychotherapy and Wellness

11/26/2025

There comes a point in your life where you might question relationships that run on your generosity alone.
Not because you’re cold.
Not because you’re “too much.”
But because you finally understand what it costs you to pour into others who don’t meet you halfway.

Wanting reciprocity isn’t being demanding — it’s including yourself in the love care and respect you show to others. Because you matter.

It’s knowing your energy has value.
It’s knowing your heart has limits.
It’s knowing you deserve to feel equally supported.

11/24/2025

Most people don’t realize that their instinct to clarify, explain, or defend is actually what shuts the conversation down.
Your partner can’t move forward until they feel understood — not agreed with, understood.

If this is a pattern in your relationship, try pausing your reflex long enough to reflect what you’re hearing.
You’ll be surprised how quickly the conversation shifts when connection comes before explanation.

If this hits, tell me which part landed for you.

11/20/2025

Raising boys who are becoming men is its own kind of transition. One day they’re your little kids, the next you’re learning to see them as their own people—adults with their own minds, needs, and ways of moving through the world. And that shift isn’t just theirs… it’s ours too.

It’s a learning curve, a humbling one, and honestly a beautiful and hard transition all at once. We’re figuring out how to let go, step back, and show up differently while still loving them fiercely. What a gift to grow right alongside them.

If you’re going through this—or you’ve already walked through it—tell me in the comments. What’s been the hardest parts?

10/21/2025

When trust breaks, clarity fades.
In therapy, you don’t have to know yet if you’ll stay or go — you only need to start understanding what this means for you.
Honesty, healing, and choice begin with safe conversation.

Visit: https://healingmatterstherapy.com/betrayal/
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10/20/2025

Save this if you’ve ever reacted to someone, then realized you might have misunderstood.

Your thoughts aren’t always facts—sometimes you may interpret behavior through the lens of your past. When you treat those interpretations as truth, you might react to a story your mind created, not what’s actually happening.

Pause. Ask yourself: “Is this fact, or my interpretation?” Share how you feel and stay curious. That simple shift can change the way you connect.

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10/19/2025

ITS TIME TO HEAL.

Are you unsure of what you need? Book a free consultation on the link below. I’m happy to connect and help you figure out next steps for your healing journey.

Book now: https://healingmatterstherapy.janeapp.com

Website: healingmatterstherapy.com

10/18/2025

Psychotherapy for couples in Hamilton and all of Ontario.
In Person and Virtual (all of Ontario)

08/26/2025