The Zen Social Worker

The Zen Social Worker Tim Gordon is a social worker with an independent practice providing psychotherapy/counselling for in

Every January, we’re told the same story:If you’re not motivated, disciplined, or “locked in” yet —that’s your problem t...
01/16/2026

Every January, we’re told the same story:

If you’re not motivated, disciplined, or “locked in” yet —
that’s your problem to fix.

Social media sells urgency.
Hustle culture sells shame.
Productivity culture sells the idea
that rest is a moral failure.

But lack of motivation isn’t a personal defect.
It’s often a signal.

A signal of burnout.
Of grief.
Of chronic stress.
Of living inside systems that never truly slow down.

ACT asks a different question:
“What matters — given the reality you’re in?”

You don’t need to force yourself into momentum.
You need context, compassion, and values-based direction.

Not every January needs a reinvention.
Some need repair.



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Most of us were taught to treat our thoughts like facts.No wonder we feel stuck.ACT offers something softer:You can noti...
01/08/2026

Most of us were taught to treat our thoughts like facts.
No wonder we feel stuck.

ACT offers something softer:
You can notice what your mind says
without believing it
or fighting it.

A thought is just something your mind produces.
Not a verdict.
Not a command.

You’re allowed space between you and your mind 🤍

ACT has some truths that sting the moment you hear them… but if you sit with them, they become medicine.These principles...
09/09/2025

ACT has some truths that sting the moment you hear them… but if you sit with them, they become medicine.

These principles ask us to stop fighting our inner world and start living in alignment with our deepest values. 🌱

💡 Which one hits hardest for you right now? Drop the number in the comments ⬇️

ACT isn’t about positive thinking—it’s about making space for all thoughts without letting them run your life. 💭✨ Which ...
09/02/2025

ACT isn’t about positive thinking—it’s about making space for all thoughts without letting them run your life. 💭✨ Which thought is sticky for you right now?

Sometimes therapy is the first place you’ve ever felt truly seen.It’s the moment you realize you don’t have to carry it ...
08/29/2025

Sometimes therapy is the first place you’ve ever felt truly seen.
It’s the moment you realize you don’t have to carry it all alone.
It’s the slow, steady unfolding of who you really are — beneath the pain, the patterns, the masks.

Therapy is healing.
It’s clarity when life feels foggy, connection when you feel isolated, and freedom when old wounds no longer define you.

💬 If you’ve ever experienced this, what has therapy meant to you?

08/28/2025

When difficult thoughts show up, try this:👉 Pause and notice the thought.👉 Say to yourself: “I’m having the thought that...
08/27/2025

When difficult thoughts show up, try this:
👉 Pause and notice the thought.
👉 Say to yourself: “I’m having the thought that…”
👉 Feel the space it creates between you and your mind.

This simple ACT practice reminds us that thoughts are not facts. From that space, we can choose actions that move us closer to our values — even when our mind gets noisy.

✨ What’s one small value-driven action you could take today?

Mindfulness isn’t about clearing your mind or “being calm all the time.” It’s about paying attention, on purpose, to the...
08/26/2025

Mindfulness isn’t about clearing your mind or “being calm all the time.” It’s about paying attention, on purpose, to the present moment — with openness and curiosity.

✨ Simple ways to practice:
1. Notice your breath before responding.
2. Eat one meal today without screens.
3. Step outside and name 5 things you can see, hear, or feel.
4. Say to yourself: “I’m here now.”

Living mindfully doesn’t mean living perfectly — it means coming back, again and again, to what matters.

👉 Which of these could you try today?

When one area feels off, it can ripple into the others. Therapy helps us notice these patterns and move toward a life th...
08/25/2025

When one area feels off, it can ripple into the others. Therapy helps us notice these patterns and move toward a life that feels more whole, balanced, and aligned.

Take a moment: Which part of the wheel feels strongest for you right now? Which part might need more care? 💫

In ACT, we help people reconnect with their core values—things like creativity, honesty, growth, connection, and compass...
07/17/2025

In ACT, we help people reconnect with their core values—things like creativity, honesty, growth, connection, and compassion—and start taking small steps in that direction, even when life feels hard.

🧭 Want help figuring out what your values actually are?
The ACT Essentials app is free, therapist-developed, and designed to walk you through it.

Sitting with your emotions is a skill—and like any skill, it takes practice, safety, and support. This post walks you th...
06/12/2025

Sitting with your emotions is a skill—and like any skill, it takes practice, safety, and support. This post walks you through gentle steps to help you stay present when big feelings show up 🫶

Save this for the next time you feel overwhelmed or disconnected. You don’t have to fix it. Just stay with it.

✨ Which of these steps feels hardest for you right now? Let’s talk about it below.

You might wear your independence like a badge of honour…But what if it’s actually a shield?You learned to survive alone....
06/04/2025

You might wear your independence like a badge of honour…

But what if it’s actually a shield?

You learned to survive alone.
But you don’t have to heal alone. 💛

This post is for anyone who’s ever said:
👉 “I’m fine.”
👉 “I don’t want to be a burden.”
👉 “I’ve got it handled.”

You deserve safe support, not silent suffering.

📌 Save this for the days you forget.
💬 Let us know—has hyper-independence shown up in your life?

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