11/05/2025
💭 Ever feel like you’re pulled in two directions?
You want to get healthier and exercise…
…but you also want to stay up late watching Netflix.
You want to meal prep and eat better…
…but you also want to unwind with takeout after a long day.
This tug-of-war is what I call competing values — two things you truly care about, but that don’t always play well together. And when they collide, you feel stuck, guilty, or frustrated with yourself.
✨ The first step is awareness — realizing that this conflict exists doesn’t make you lazy or undisciplined. It makes you human.
Here are a few ways to start breaking the cycle:
1️⃣ Clarify your “why.” Ask yourself what value matters most right now. Maybe rest is what you actually need tonight — or maybe your energy goal matters more this week.
2️⃣ Plan for both. Pair them strategically: stretch or foam roll while watching your show, or set a firm bedtime so you can still enjoy both Netflix and your morning workout.
3️⃣ Start small. You don’t need to overhaul your habits overnight. Aligning your actions with your values happens in micro-decisions — one choice at a time.
Awareness → Alignment → Ease.
That’s the formula for creating less inner conflict and more consistency.
💬 What competing values do you notice most in your life?