02/28/2024
A great post from 👇Give it a read if you’re looking for ways to validate your kid’s experiences!
Injuries happen…especially when we are giving children the space to “be a kid.”
👉🏼Conscious replacements don’t have to model sadness or fear, which is often the concern of parents.
“I don’t want them to see me react because they will cry more!” Sound familiar?
Often, that’s true (mirror neurons), but we can still acknowledge the pain from a state of truth and calm. I.e., “Yikes, dude! (I saw it!) I got you. (I am here.)”👌🏼
➡️ It can be tough because “You’re okay!” can slip out *so easily* and at times, it can feel harmless because usually, they are!
👉🏼 However, acknowledging what actually happened (hurt) is an important part of parent/child dyad. Instead of trying to convince kids out of their feelings, it demonstrates to them, “I believe you! I saw it!” then we can move on effectively.
✨At the end of the day, we all just want to feel seen and heard, not convinced out of what we are experiencing.✨
(Disclaimer: No child was seriously hurt or injured in this video)
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