02/10/2026
Choices for Today’s Families
At Britton Funeral Home we are regularly asked, what are my choices? What are my options when deciding on which type of funeral service to have?
Times are changing and there are an increasing number of options for families, depending on factors such as religious affiliation and circumstances following a death. Let’s talk about a couple of the main ways families are having a service for their loved one.
The traditional funeral, as its name implies is a funeral service which we are all well acquainted with from our past. Historically, this was a 3-day service, two days of visitation or viewing followed by a service on day three and then interment at a cemetery. With this type of service, the deceased is placed in a casket which is present at all the phases of the service.
Present day modifications to a traditional funeral include: sometimes a family will opt to not have a full three-day funeral, abbreviating it to a two-day service. Sometimes a family will choose to have a graveside service with clergy presiding, only. Sometimes following a traditional funeral, final disposition is changed from burial of a casket to cremation and placement of the cremated remains in an urn.
A second option for families is a memorial service. With this choice, an urn is used and the service is performed after cremation. A memorial service can unfold in the exact same manner as a traditional service, the only difference being an urn being present, rather than a casket. There can be visitation with the urn, a memorial funeral service and then interment of the urn at the cemetery.
With this choice, because the body of the deceased is not present at the service, often a portrait, a floral display and mementos are introduced, highlighting special moments and personal passions from the life of the departed.
Talking with a funeral director about how these decisions affect the funeral is always recommended. Based on our experience we are able to advise what will and will not work well.
Whether a family chooses a traditional-type service where a casket is present or a memorial-type service with an urn present, a recent trend we are witnessing is more personalization. The ways we decide to pay tribute to a loved one is important and this adds meaning for all in attendance.
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