04/13/2026
Being an internalizer is hard. We blame ourselves for virtually everything. This becomes deeply problematic particularly on our healing journey when we blame ourselves for the behaviors of other people.
I'm Nicole, and I help internalizers heal from the effects of abusive, toxic, and emotionally immature parents, caregivers, and families. I use a blend of somatics, attachment repair, energy work, and nervous system healing techniques, with my client's sense of safety as my #1 priority. Gentleness and going slow, in my opinion, are necessary to heal in a lasting, non-re-traumatizing way.
New clients might struggle with depression, anxiety, perfectionism, feeling too much or not enough, unworthy or unloved, unfulfilled, empty, or stuck; they may struggle in relationships, or just overall feel like they're just not okay much of the time. Clients might notice attachment issues, be hyper-independent and fear closeness and intimacy, or fear being codependent or alone. They might even see and understand their issues but don't know how to change them. Most of all, they struggle with their feelings and emotions, and with emotional regulation. Certain feelings - or most of them - might feel threatening, scary, or overwhelming. Chronic states of stress are their norm, and they are exhausted with it.
Some folks need to talk and share their voice, while others aren't ready or interested in that approach. You don't need to do anything outside your comfort zone with me, and you don't have to speak about your traumas and wounds to heal them.
You can visit my website to learn more about me and the work I do here -
nicoleschemenauer.weebly.com
-or perhaps you want to book a 30-min free call to see if we're a good fit, or maybe you're already ready to start your healing journey. You can book online here:
nicoleschemenauer.janeapp.com
Or maybe you're ready to dive into my Attachment Healing Intensive, where the repairing of attachment wounds is our steady focus. Contact me here:
schemenauernicole@gmail.com
We can work in-person in Humboldt, SK, or online from anywhere in Canada!
I look forward to holding space for you. Remember, you are not broken, and you do not need fixing. You might just need love, safety, support, and space.💜
🪻Nicole