02/28/2026
You're A Dysfunctional Husband
When you move on by pretending like nothing happened.
Your wife feels betrayed and alone.
You'd rather not face your wife so you act like her feelings don't matter.
Ignoring her because you won't take responsibility.
Silent when things need to be addressed.
You are telling your wife she doesn't matter.
She's not a priority.
But when you act like you have to be the bigger person...
To justify your behavior, you're patting yourself on the back to keep the peace.
Your wife can see your lack of integrity as you appease her with happy wife, happy life.
Until you finally address the situation or issue...
By puking your feelings all over your wife.
Pointing the finger back to her.
Talking yourself up to put her down.
Or tearing her down to build yourself up.
By now, she's walking on eggshells because you can't manage your emotions.
You have no idea how to have conversations anymore because marriage got "hard".
You're so busy stringing words together, pretending you communicate...
You never actually solve your problems.
You've lost the ability to set the tone in your home for you, your wife, your kids.
You can't reach goals because you can't structure your future.
You sit in your pain, blaming, rather than becoming disciplined and holding yourself accountable.
You are dysfunctional.
Don't YOU want to laugh again?
Conversations where you go topic to topic without worrying who's interrupting who.
Where you aren't worried if either of you can talk, kiss and love.
Where flirting and dates are not just important and prioritized...
They are exciting and fun.
"Issues" can come up, but you get through them, and it brings you closer every time.
I know you do.
Stop sitting in your resentment, blaming your wife, long enough...
To realize, you aren't actually doing what's necessary to create this new life.
And don't say you are...
If you were, she wants those things too.
She'd be following your lead.
We show you how on our podcast: MORROW MARRIAGE.
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