12/18/2025
At this time of year when there’s an abundance of giving – carefully chosen gifts, elaborate dinners, volunteering at events and gatherings, being on the receiving end can be surprisingly hard.
If someone offers to carry your groceries, compliments your work or thanks you for something you did, what is your first instinct? Do you deflect, downplay and politely refuse their help? You may even have been commended for your humility or independence – both praiseworthy attributes at times, however our inability to receive gratitude without mentally squirming can often be rooted in deeper patterns.
Always the giver, never the receiver? Saying yes to help, praise, or kindness can feel uncomfortable but it matters more than you think. This powerful shift not only strengthens your resilience and self-worth, it deepens your relationships. Here’s why receiving isn’t weakness, it’s connection,...