05/01/2025
If you are a parent of twins or triplets, you know how hard things can be. This is particularly noticable in the first year.
Just getting out of the door can be an insurmountable task most days. Even when you finally do, you must deal with constant stares, comments, and questions from strangers...some of which are not very encouraging. Attending parent and baby groups can feel intimidating, as everything you need to do with your babies takes at least twice as long. Some are even completely inaccessible due to location, registration limitations, cost, and more. There are so many places where you may not feel like you fit in.
On top of this, parents of multiples often deal with intense emotional fatigue as they try to meet the needs of all of their babies. They may worry about their children being seen as individuals, or that they are getting enough 1 on 1 time. Many babies born as twins/triplets experience medical or developmental concerns from premature birth and other factors. This further adds to the load of caring for multiples. Common challenges new parents face such as sleep deprivation, financial strain, lack of a 'village', and mental health issues are magnified for parents of multiples.
Despite all of these challenges, any parent of multiples will tell you what an honour it is to be part of this special club. Catching a knowing glance from another parent of multiples out in the wild is so comforting. We love our children AND struggle with the weight of it all sometimes. There is value in knowing you are not alone in your struggles. Some days are really hard.
If you are a parent of multiples looking for mental health support, I encourage you to reach out. Having the right kind of support can make all of the difference. From one twin mom to another; I see you. Please know you are not alone.
https://www.rootedthistlecounselling.com/services/parentsofmultiplestwinstriplets
Info@rootedthistlecounselling.com
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