11/18/2025
🗣️ “How do you respond to shame and self-criticism?”
As clinicians, it helps to remember that shame and self-criticism aren’t things we fix for clients — they’re experiences we can meet with compassion and curiosity.
One powerful approach? Offer a menu of options and explore what resonates:
✨ Gently noticing the self-critical voice without fusing to it
✨ Naming shame as a common human experience
✨ Practicing kinder, more compassionate self-talk
✨ Asking about workability — does this way of relating move you toward what matters, or keep you stuck?
The goal isn’t to eliminate shame, but to help clients find different ways of holding it — and support flexibility in how they respond.