Sanctuary Counselling and Training

Sanctuary Counselling and Training A Sanctuary is a place of healing, comfort and safety, a refuge from the storms in our life.

At Sanctuary Counselling and Training we endeavor not only to provide that environment for our clients but also to help them connect with the Sanctuary within. Therapists at Sanctuary Counselling and Training employ a strengths-based, client centered approach to therapeutic work using integrative trauma and attachment focused methods including psychodynamic therapy, polyvagal and nervous system regulation, internal family systems and trauma focused partswork, ITATM, DBT, Somatic and Sensorimotor body work,mindfulness based self compassion in a Sanctuary model of care. Our trainings utilize a lecture style that prioritizes group experiential learning, arts-based activities and use of self.

​Specializing in the areas of trauma & attachment, Sanctuary is an alternative private practice that offers experience and competency in working with marginalized communities particularly q***r, neurodivergent and disabled folks. We recognize that a wounded sense of belonging and community is often at the heart of many of the issues we experience across the lifespan even more so for folks navigating complex identities or experiences. The owner and lead clinician has been a public educator and community organizer in KW for over 15 years, and is a leader in the Rainbow community. She has worked with municipal and regional government, police services, academic institutions and community groups to provide workshops and training on improving diversity and inclusion for all in the wider community. We approach the therapeutic relationship with warmth, compassion and authenticity and create an environment of healing and safety for clients to explore their own creative path to healing, learning and growth.

As a trauma therapist, I often sit with the stories that have no words.Clients whose parts feel at war with the meaning ...
11/05/2025

As a trauma therapist, I often sit with the stories that have no words.

Clients whose parts feel at war with the meaning they make of their experiences.

Sometimes, the only way to make sense of it all is through color and paper — to let the pieces speak for themselves.

This collage is a reflection of what trauma therapy can feel like: chaos, confusion, and the long road back to yourself.
And yet — in every layer — there’s hope.
A reminder that struggle isn’t failure.
That even when it’s messy, healing is happening.

Working in expressive arts therapy has taught me that creating can be a way to give wholeness to what inside feels scattered.

And sometimes, it’s also an act of remembering —
who you are beneath the pain.

If you’re curious about art-based healing or trauma recovery work, you can learn more about my work at Sanctuary Counselling. Link in bio.



This past week, our community lost an incredible human, and a precious Q***r Elder. I am deeply grieving the loss of my ...
03/26/2025

This past week, our community lost an incredible human, and a precious Q***r Elder. I am deeply grieving the loss of my dear friend Randy Farrell.

Randy was an advocate and activist on the front lines of fighting for Gay rights and Q***r inclusion since the 1970's.

He was fierce, warm, generous, joyful and funny as hell
I am beyond grateful for the way he stepped into my life and became my family 💓

There will be a public celebration of life on
April 1st, 6:30 to 8: 30 at Grand River Rec Center

Randy's Big Gay Party in Celebration of his Big Gay Life🏳️‍🌈💓

Hey folks!It's planning day here at Sanctuary, and I am focused on the groups, workshops and trainings to offer in 2025....
01/25/2025

Hey folks!

It's planning day here at Sanctuary, and I am focused on the groups, workshops and trainings to offer in 2025.

Here is a short list of what I'm thinking so far!

💥Neurodivergent DBT
A group that explores the classic DBT skills of mindfulness, emotion regulation, distress tolerance and interpersonal effectiveness through a ND positive framework including issues related to capacity, sensory needs, interception and masking.

💥 Dissociative Disorders Skills Group
For folks with DID, DDNOS, or Structural Dissociation
This group will be a gentle experience in creating a mindfulness and creativity practice for folks with traumatized systems who struggle with dissociation or internal polarization.

💥Attachment Focused Movement
Utilizing movement, gesture and dance to become safely embodied. This group will focus on embodied boundary setting, using our voice, taking up space, and building skills in self compassion and self soothing.

Let me know in the comments if these are experiences that would interest you or folks in your life, and I'd love to hear your ideas about the offerings that you would like to see!!

Hi Friends,Change is on the horizon here at Sanctuary Counselling.In 2025, I will be updating the website and transferri...
12/13/2024

Hi Friends,

Change is on the horizon here at Sanctuary Counselling.

In 2025, I will be updating the website and transferring virtual sessions to a different web platform, which will allow clients to:

❄️Book Online
❄️Register their credit card for regular payment
❄️Receive invoices and receipts quickly and easily
❄️Receive text reminders of session times

I am also hoping to hire one or two additional practitioners to reduce waitlist times, offer more groups and a retreat next year.

I will also be offering:
🌿nature based therapy groups
🐎equine assisted therapy coming in 2026

There will also be a fee increase for 2025.
It has been such a pleasure to support you through these challenging times. I always endeavour to keep pricing as consistent and as affordable as possible for all while we all navigate a world of rising costs of living and inflation.

Fees for 2025
60 min session $175
90 min session $255
Family therapy 60 min session $200
Sliding scale for students/unwaged $75

I endeavor to use an equitable pricing structure that allows for those of with more to support those of us with less.

(New or returning clients in 2024 are already on the new fee schedule, pre-existing clients fees will increase Jan 1 2025.)

If you are interested in contributing to our subsidy fund you can give the gift of trauma therapy by clicking "support the work" link in bio.
https://linktr.ee/Sanctuarycounselling

Additionally, if this rate increase constitutes a barrier for you to access therapy, please reach out to me and we will make an alternative arrangement.

Warmly,

Sunna

Hi Folks,It's that time again!The office will be closed Monday January 23rd to Tuesday Jan 7thI will be available via em...
12/12/2024

Hi Folks,

It's that time again!

The office will be closed Monday January 23rd to Tuesday Jan 7th

I will be available via email over the holidays for support if needed.

Wishing you all a safe and peaceful transition to the New Year.

Hey folks,Today is my last day in office before the holiday closure. We will be closed from Dec 23-January 3rd.Wishing y...
12/22/2023

Hey folks,

Today is my last day in office before the holiday closure.

We will be closed from Dec 23-January 3rd.

Wishing you a bright and cozy end to the year 🌲✨

Hey Folks,It is always my intention to keep my therapy practice  as accessible as possible, while also navigating inflat...
11/06/2023

Hey Folks,

It is always my intention to keep my therapy practice as accessible as possible, while also navigating inflation and rising costs.

To this end, I'll be making the following changes to the fee structure next year.

🌟The price of standard sessions will remain the same.

🌟The price of extended sessions will be increased to a ratio that matches the standard rate. ( I've kept them discounted for several years).

🌟The price of sliding scale sessions will be decreased to 50% of the standard rate

These changes have already been applied for new clients in the last 6 months, and for existing clients they will take effect January 1st 2024

As always, if this rate change constitutes a barrier to therapy for you please reach out to me and we will work together to create an alternative arrangement.

This Halloween, let's remember that we are all made of many parts, see what I did there? 👀Sorry folks, couldn't resist a...
11/01/2023

This Halloween, let's remember that we are all made of many parts, see what I did there? 👀

Sorry folks, couldn't resist an IFS joke 🤣🤣🤣




One of the most common questions that I get asked when folks start therapy is:"I have lived from a place of trauma and s...
09/13/2023

One of the most common questions that I get asked when folks start therapy is:

"I have lived from a place of trauma and survival for so long that I can't imagine anything different- what does healing even look like?"

While healing absolutely looks different for everyone, here are some signs that you might notice as you are healing from trauma:

🌼You're more able to set boundaries and say no & can tolerate when people are disappointed with you or when they don't like your decisions.

🌼You find yourself feeling naturally softer, kinder and more tender toward other humans & yourself

🌼You're more able to tolerate when people need to take space, & can more easily access compassion when you notice other people's emotional needs.

🌼 You no longer feel the need to control or bully others into agreement with you.

🌼You have more capacity to feel your feelings, and it no longer hijacks you or dysregulates you for days

🌼It's easier for you to notice what you need and to take actions towards meeting your needs

🌼You're more able to give yourself Grace when you make mistakes, and relate to difficult emotions with a sense of care

🌼You are more able to be present and feel more at home in your body & your aliveness.

🌼Dissociation and numbness is no longer your preferred state of being

🌼You have moments where you feel a sense of awe, wonder or appreciation.

🌼Big emotions may still feel difficult but no longer intolerable.

🌼You can tell when you are triggered & are able to discern past pain from present

🌼You feel protective or loving towards the child that you were

🌼 Vulnerability in yourself or others no longer elicits the feeling of shame or revulsion

🌼You have moments where you no longer feel "bad inside". You can connect with your own unique and innate goodness as a human being.

🌼You have stopped "taking things personally" & realize that everyone else has just as much of a complex and rich inner world as you do

🌼You have a more solid sense of who you are and it remains consistent regardless of who you are with. You no longer lose yourself in others personalities and values.

Have you ever heard that phrase "it takes a village"?Well, it's actually really true that human social and emotional nee...
08/03/2023

Have you ever heard that phrase "it takes a village"?

Well, it's actually really true that human social and emotional needs were ideally served when we we were living in small, interdependent communities where we could access support through a variety of connections.

As cultural values have shifted towards hyper- independence, many folks find themselves without solid support networks to rely on.

If you have ever felt that your needs are "too much" or been told that you are 'burdening the system 🤬

I want you to know that it's
Totally Normal and Necessary to need support, and if you notice that you need several types of support, I'd like to encourage you to Resource Yourself by making the connections to meet those needs.

You might have a therapist but also need a parenting coach.

You might work with one support on processing your trauma and with another on building life skills.

You might need a peer support group to reduce your isolation, in addition to one-on-one counselling.

When we need multiple supports but don't have them in place, we might find ourselves in a pattern of moving from crisis to crisis without the ability to get to work on the deeper patterns that reinforce our instability.

When we are well resourced, it builds our sense of safety. It also reduces our dependence on that one support to be everything for us, and makes it easier for us to tolerate an interruption in that support due to ordinary life changes- holidays, illness, finances etc

Take some time and consider what your support needs are and who might be best suited to help you with those specific needs. We can often access a mix of paid, covered by insurance and free supports that benefit our mental health ❤️




07/22/2023

If you have ever felt like you're "fundamentally flawed", broken or damaged, or generally 'not a good person'- this video is for you!

Often, when I first meet clients, they try to convince me about how 'bad' they are. The story might be that they are selfish, angry or bitter, or that they have behaviors like avoiding meeting others needs, lashing out or not caring about how others feel.

They might feel like other people have a warmth or a light and inside them is something defective, or dark

This feeling is actually internalized shame, and is a symptom of childhood trauma, which often results from lacking consistent closeness, presence and nurturing in our family.

When we grow up in a way that does not meet the needs of centering our development, our brain moves into survival patterning-which means that it prioritizes Getting Our Needs Met however we can.

Which means that we're not doing the developmental tasks that our brain needs in childhood- developing social, emotional, and relational skills.

Often what we think of as a character trait might actually be a skill.

For example: empathy is a skill, and it's one that we consistently practice between the ages of 4 and 10 years old. If however we were taught empathy through shame, that shuts down the learning centers of the brain and we might actually find ourselves quite apathetic to others.

The good news is that in adulthood we can notice where we have interpersonal deficits, and instead of shaming ourselves for those gaps, or believing that it means there's something wrong with us, we can actually Build That Skill!

We can Practice social, emotional and relational skills and it actually grows our brain and builds new neuropathways!

Good luck out there!

I'm rooting for you 💓

07/22/2023

Hey folks!

Here is a short video on detachment which is the emotional wound that often underlies reactivity to feeling rejected or abandoned in relationships.

The underlying feelings in detachment are terror, shame and a deep sense of alone-ness or exile. It is quite possibly one of the most painful things that we can experience as human beings, as this wound is created when we are at an incredibly vulnerable stage in development. Often there's no words that can describe it, as it can be pre-verbal.

I have included a short somatic practice to help soothe and attend to that pain at the level of our sensorimotor system.

You can use a pillow or a stuffed animal, here I have used a squishmalllow, which are excellent for conforming to our body's shape, and are very soft and comforting.

As you do this practice you may notice waves of grief moving through you, allow your tears to do their job and help you release this emotional pain.

While you can do this with another human body, I'd actually recommend using something like a stuffed animal as even our safest people can create anxiety in our system due to our attachment wounds, and we may move into an attach/cry for help stance that fosters regression, ultimately this is a reparenting technique to help the adult you are now, relate and attend to the child you were then.

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Kitchener, ON
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Tuesday 1pm - 7pm
Wednesday 1pm - 7pm
Thursday 1pm - 7pm
Friday 1pm - 7pm

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