11/10/2025
đź’ Are you the peacemaker in the room?
Always smoothing things over, staying “easygoing,” and putting everyone else first?
You might:
🔹 Take on the duty role
🔹 Suppress your own (healthy) anger
🔹 Feel responsible for everyone’s emotions
🔹 Obsess over meeting others’ emotional needs
Sounds familiar?
👉🏽 Research shows that chronic emotional suppression like this can take a physical toll — and peacemakers may be more likely to develop autoimmune diseases.
🧠Your body keeps the score. People-pleasing isn’t just exhausting — it can be dangerous.
💥 You’re allowed to take up space. You’re allowed to feel anger. You’re allowed to not fix everything.
Your peace shouldn’t come at the cost of your health.
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