10/22/2025
Recently, I’ve been having all sorts of conversations about letting go.
Certainly, it’s not an uncommon thing to be told that surrender and letting go are required for birth, but that’s easier said than done.
If you are someone who has watched birth videos in preparation for your own birth, it may have caused worry at the sight of someone “losing control.” But that isn’t what is happening.
What comes with surrender is an ability to cope with the waves and intensity of labour.
The other part is when folks force it when their bodies aren’t telling them they need it. Vocalizing through rather than allowing their voice to groan as a primal urge.
Labour is most certainly a time to be IN your body.
The beautiful part about it is that in that specific circumstance, it is a private moment if you want it to be. While some folks do share their births publicly, it’s okay to keep It private.
You are the only one who will cope through birth the way you do-quietly or roaring through each wave.