09/25/2025
Hey there! It’s been a little while and I promise we have some big plans and changes ahead.
I’m just logging on to say hi and let everyone know that we are still here and available to chat and show off what we have. Feel free to reach out or leave a comment, I promise they all come to us and we will try our best to answer when we can! (Life of a parent lol) For introduction my name is Nick, I’m Amanda’s husband and I thought I’d just share a little!
Let’s be clear my wife is the true hero and I want to take a moment to recognize all the work she’s done and I am genuinely excited for her to share with you all what we’ve been thinking for the future of this site and what more we can bring and offer! I am so proud of you! And let’s not forget our little man who inspired this whole adventure!
So growing up I’ve heard all sorts of stories and different highlights of what it means to be “Autistic” and what it must mean to be a parent. Well raising or caring for a 7-year-old child with autism can be both a rewarding and a challenging journey. At this age, many children are developing greater independence, learning social rules, and exploring their interests more deeply. For a child with autism, however, these transitions might look a little different—and that’s okay.
Every child with autism is unique, and there’s no one-size-fits-all approach. But by understanding their needs, strengths, and challenges, we can create a supportive environment that helps them thrive.
Now I can sit here and spout out facts found in an oversized text book with words you’d only find in a scrabble match, but who does that help? I come from a psychology background, and work as a support worker helping clients of different ages with different developmental disabilities. I’m very familiar with this environment. However it’s completely different to live and be apart of it all from a parent side, step-parent in my case. I’d rather speak from the heart and my own personal experience.
What does it mean being a parent? Sleepless nights, a whole lot of coffee and Disney movies. But also all the joy of watching the little humans grow into people and seeing all the achievements and adventures they get into. Autism, comes across as a scary word, full of uncertainty. However what I’ve learned is that it’s full of beauty and adventure all the same! Is it scary? Well that’s a question that every parent should think before having their kid, regardless if they’re neurodivergent or not! In reality, it’s unknown, and yes that can be scary, but also exciting and beautiful!
Living with and loving a 7-year-old with autism means seeing the world through a different lens. Yes, there will be challenges—communication gaps, sensory struggles, moments of frustration—but there will also be joy, growth, and moments of profound connection. Now every parent is going to say “my kid is the best kid” and boast all the best qualities! My kids are no different, I’m one hell of a proud parent! My boy wakes up like everyone else and boy does he seize the day! He impresses me everyday with how much he’s grown. Little guy knows how to use my phone and tablet better than I do!! But the most beautiful thing about him is that no matter what is going on in a day you bet that he will find the joy in everything! Laughing and jumping around and always trying to make us laugh! I have learned a lot from him, and one major thing I think everyone should take away is to enjoy the little things! Hop along with your kids, sing the songs they love! Match that energy and see how beautiful the world is in their eyes!
What matters most is creating a safe, understanding, and respectful space where your child feels accepted for who they are—not who others expect them to be. Please remember, your child doesn’t need to be “fixed.” They need to be supported, loved, and empowered. In my experience I have seen that the most “improvement” can be found just by offering all the love to them! Be their safe place, it’s okay to feel scared of the unknown but don’t let it take control.
You’ve got this guys! Let’s spark some conversations, tell us your stories! And we will be back with more updates soon!
A short poem:
In Their Own Way
A quiet world, a softer tone,
They walk a path that’s all their own.
They see the stars where others glance,
And find the magic in a dance.
Words may come or stay away,
But in their eyes, whole stories play.
They feel the world both loud and bright—
A different view, a deeper light.
Not broken, lost, or out of place—
Just moving at a different pace.
A heart that shines in colors new,
A child with dreams as wide as you.
