02/14/2026
Mourning Reflection…
Good morning (or maybe it's a hard, or * #!@% morning...and that's okay)
I wanted to let you know that whatever you are feeling today, on Valentine’s Day, it is okay, that of course there will be many and varied emotions at play on a day such as this. Allow yourself to feel what you feel.
I hope you can find moments today where a memory seeps in and brings some comfort, some warmth. I encourage you to embrace that moment, and to hold yourself with care and compassion for all you've been through.
Love is at the core of our lives as human beings and it can be felt and expressed in many ways, with many people. I encourage you to feel that love, to let it carry you, to extend it outward to someone within your circle, even if it's the clerk at the grocery store (if you're even venturing out today - cocooning is also a good choice if that feels better!)
Even while our hearts are broken, for whatever the reason or circumstance, we can soften, we can be gentle with ourselves and those around us wherever possible. You might choose to send a text or email to someone you care about, or perhaps call up a friend you haven't spoken to for a little while. Love is connection and comfort and we can choose to embrace it, even while we grieve what we've lost.
I wanted you to know that you're being thought of today, and I appreciate how complex the experience of facing such a day can be, no matter how many times you've had to face it.
I also wanted to share an upcoming webinar being hosted by What's Your Grief (a robust grief support resource in the U.S.) on February 25th that might be of interest.
"Living alone after loss means managing both the practical realities and the emotional weight of daily life without someone who used to be there. This webinar addresses the specific challenges that come with solo living after the death of a partner, family member, or close companion."
REGISTER: https://streamyard.com/watch/THvE6sj6q9z7
Thinking of you, as always.
Cheryl 💛
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Living alone after loss means managing both the practical realities and the emotional weight of daily life without someone who used to be there. This webinar addresses the specific challenges that come with solo living after the death of a partner, family member, or close companion. We'll talk about...