09/26/2025
Shame often hides beneath the surface of conflict—fueling arguments, creating distance, and making it harder to feel understood. When we don’t recognize the role shame plays, the same patterns repeat, leaving both people feeling hurt and disconnected.
In this new video blog, I explore how shame shows up in relationships, why it can intensify conflict, and most importantly—what you can do to start shifting the cycle.
👉 Watch the full video by clicking here: https://www.hammerpsychotherapy.com/shame-and-conflict/
If you’ve ever wondered why conflicts sometimes feel bigger than the issue at hand, this video may help shed light and offer a new perspective