Randi O’Hare, Psychotherapist

02/19/2026

You can always tell who is secure by how they handle disagreement.

Defensive people rush to protect their ego. Grounded people get curious. They ask questions. They pause before reacting.

The need to “win” a conversation is usually fear in disguise. The ability to understand someone else without losing yourself? That’s maturity. That’s strength.

02/13/2026

Food for thought!

02/13/2026

When’s the last time you had an ‘empty day’?

02/12/2026

What’s one quality that you’ve learned is important to have in a romantic partner, that your younger self probably didn’t know was important?
(see my answer in the comments)

02/12/2026

What’s the WORST dating advice someone ever gave you?

02/11/2026

QUESTION - What dating advice do you wish you could go back and give your younger self?

02/11/2026

QUESTION FOR THE MEN OUT THERE— I’m creating a version of The Savvy Dater class for men, to help them increase their chances of finding a compatible dating partner. As a man, what kind of information would you find helpful to learn about/have more information on so that dating could be less frustrating and more successful for you? Comment below!

02/11/2026

02/08/2026

This is true!

02/02/2026

Tonight is the night!! I’ll be teaching the last of the 3 classes of The Savvy Dater, a psychoeducational group I created to help folks navigate the dating world and find someone who is a good match for them. Tonight’s topic: common perils of dating such as limerence, the anxious-avoidant dance and more!

01/29/2026

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01/29/2026

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