04/19/2026
When you are expecting a baby it can be super overwhelming not knowing what you actually need to invest in.
A wrap or baby carrier is essential. These let you get things done by being hands free. They allow you to do unlimited skin to skin while walking around the house. They keep baby close and kept away from strangers who tend to want to touch baby cheeks. They can be picked up cheaply or be a real investment that you can use into the toddler years.
A infant scale is not something thats needed. They tend to lead to anxiety that baby is or is not gaining appropriately. They are usually not as accurate as they need to be and they take up space. Attending your baby well visits when scheduled is all you need to do unless you have been informed otherwise by your Dr.
An IBCLC, absolutely needed. Your lactation information shouldn't be coming from social media. All new parents have questions even if feeding is going well. We help with bottle feeding and formula preparation as well. Make sure your LC is board certified, our evidence based information is kept up to date and we undergo continuous education/training,
A beautiful nursery is nice to look at but thats about it. It is recommended your baby sleeps in your room for the first 6-12 months. Cribs tend to be over priced laundry baskets. Most people end up redecorating in a couple years or moving their toddler out of the nursery to make room for a second baby, which is a lot of change for emotional toddlers.
Not every baby likes to be in a stroller, no need to invest in the top of the line model before your baby is even here. A simple umbrella stroller when they've grown some more is cost efficient and takes up way less space. Baby wearing for the win!
You need support! Whether that comes in the form of family, friends or a post partum doula. Recovering from child birth, running on little sleep, learning to nurse and still remembering to walk the dog is a lot. Having people who you can count on to support you and do all the things you dont need to be doing right away is absolutely needed.
What did you realize was simply a WANT and not necessarily a NEED?