04/21/2026
Grief moves when you move toward it.
For a lot of people it's actually one of the hardest things to do because approaching grief means feeling it, and feeling it can feel like opening a door you're not sure you can close again.
So instead, people delay it and the effects just linger.
One of the most practical things I come back to with clients is this… Have you ever tried giving yourself permission to grieve on a timer? 👀
It sounds a little strange… but hear me out.
⏰ Pick a time on the weekend.
⏳ Set a timer for an hour.
💭 Let yourself actually think about the loss.
And if you cry, you cry. That's the whole point!
Just one hour in a safe, contained space where you're not pushing it away.
And then when the timer goes off, you're done for today.
A lot of people are surprised by what happens. Sometimes it doesn't even last the full hour. But either way, something shifts.
Because you stopped running from it, even just for a moment.
The only way to get through grief is to go through it. And sometimes that starts with just giving yourself an hour. 💙