03/17/2025
đď¸Ever notice how, no matter how much you do, achieve, or give⌠thereâs always a whisper (or a scream) in the back of your mind sayingâŚ
â¨âItâs not enough.ââ¨âI should be doing more.ââ¨âWhy canât I keep up like everyone else?â
This is the Not Enough Loop. A deep-rooted belief that keeps you chasing, proving, and exhausting yourself. Yet never feeling truly satisfied. And if this feels familiar, itâs not because youâre failing. Itâs because you were taught to feel this way.
From the time weâre little girls, we learn that our worth is something we have to earn. Weâre praised for being helpful. For being selfless. For working hard. For being strong. But how often are we celebrated just for being? Not for what we accomplish. Not for what we give. Not for how well we hold everything together. Just for existing?
Over time, this wires our nervous system to equate our value with productivity, perfection, and people-pleasing. If we slow down, guilt creeps in. If we set a boundary, we feel like a bad friend. A bad partner. A bad mother. If we choose ourselves first, even once, the voice in our head whispers⌠Selfish. Lazy. Not enough.
This belief is not reality. Itâs conditioning. And you donât have to carry it anymore.
Because beneath all the proving and pleasing, your authentic voice has been waiting for you. The part of you that knows you are enough, without needing permission. The part of you that trusts your own needs and desires.
What if, instead of constantly trying to prove your worth, you let yourself feel it? What if, instead of asking, Am I doing enough? you asked, What if I already am?
This isnât just mindset work. Itâs nervous system work. Itâs voice work. Itâs reclaiming who you are, so your worth isnât something you chase. Itâs something you embody.
đ Iâd love to hear from you. Where in your life do you feel like youâre ânot enoughâ?
For me itâs as a mom đŻ
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