12/25/2025
The holidays are hard when you're already running on empty.
Everyone talks about magic and togetherness. Meanwhile, you're calculating how many hours of sleep you can afford to lose this week.
You're managing expectations from every direction. The gifts. The meals. The schedules that somehow got more complicated, not less.
And somewhere in there, you're supposed to feel grateful and present and joyful.
Here's what I want you to know:
It's okay to do less this year.
Not because you can't handle it. But because you've been handling so much for so long that your version of less is still more than most people attempt.
You can skip the elaborate thing. You can buy the cookies instead of baking them. You can sit down in the middle of the chaos and just breathe for a minute, even if nothing is finished.
The people who love you don't need perfection from you. They need you to still be standing in January.
One small thing you can let go of today. That's all. Just one.
You get to protect your energy, even now. Especially now.
Merry Christmas, beautiful warrior. You are seen. You are valued. You are so much more than enough.