03/16/2022
I’m sure you have heard this quote being thrown around
“Practice makes perfects”
I both love and hate this quote.
1st, I love the messaging that over time you will become better and better, and it’s true. While cleaning out my office I had found some old posts that I had written early last year. Not wanting to waste perfectly good content I retyped them to see where they would fit in my consent schedule. Yet you won’t see them any time soon unless you look back on my consent from a year ago. Why you may ask… my writing has improved. I have let go of formulas that did vibe with me, and have become more confident in saying my voice through my written content.
This improvement in skills, figuring out what you vibe with, and developing the confidence to be yourself, are all things that you develop through regular and consistent practice. This applies to all skills: cooking, exercise, meal planning, self-care, riding a bike, running, lifting weights, you name it this principle of regular practice will lead to improvement in any area you focus on.
Now let me explain why I hate this quote. Really, it’s just one word… Perfect. As a perfectionist, perfection is an endpoint that causes anxiety often to the point of procrastination, that is if I start something new at all. Perfection is also an impossible endpoint, there will also be room for growth in whatever field you focus on.
Rather, although it’s less catchy, I would prefer “Practice makes Progress” or “practice makes for growth”. With the focus on Progress and growth, we celebrate all the small achievements and milestones rather than comparing our current ability with what we perceive as “perfect”