10/24/2025
Being authentic about who you are and how you present yourself is important when raising children and teenagers. Being genuine will help you to create the life you want for yourself and for them.
When you recognise your own true boundaries, you will show a strength and meaning that your children will adopt into their own lives as they will see it so strongly within you. Teenagers will need boundaries so they can live in a predictable environment in which they know what to expect.
Boundaries are those invisible lines that individuals draw to separate themselves from others and protect their well-being. From a psychological point of view, boundaries are important because they serve as a crucial aspect of human relationships, mental health, and personal growth. They tell others how you want to be treated and where your limits are. Boundaries can be divided into four types: physical, emotional, intellectual, and spiritual.
As you would want your teenager to be honest and openly communicate with you to how they are feeling, you will want to do the same. This begins with being open and honest within yourself. This modeling of respecting the boundaries you have of yourself and for others will at the same time serve as a lighthouse for your teen.
This can be a tricky period of time to be both in the parent role and within a personal role if you struggled with boundaries and relationships when you were growing up yourself. Raising children is a period of time where what you lacked or the type of love that was modeled to you becomes very ‘out in the open’ and obvious, when you are parenting. This is a time to strengthen your own boundaries and relationships—for not only yourself -but your growing teens as well.
“Without this inner work, it is not possible to become a good role model and to teach your teenager to create the life they dream of.” 🌟
Reference: Sandahl, Iben Dissing. (2023) The Danish Way of Raising Teens.
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