03/31/2026
Just an fyi...we will never NOT need others (sorry for the double negative!).
Sure, inner security comes *partly* from being able to stand firm in ourselves...being able to hold our big feelings, reassure ourselves, and feel our worth from within. AND, we learn to do all of this IN RELATIONSHIP...ideally starting with our primary caregivers. Though for many of us, while our caregivers did their best, we may not have gotten to experience that fully...which means we need to learn this in our adult relationships.
So, hey, if you are still learning to love yourSELF hold yourSELF, to know YOUR worth, or to deepen into all of this...that's okay. Me too :) And, I know I got my peeps (including the Frankie dog) by my side to teach me. And I have a feeling they will be lifelong teachers.
Who are your peeps who help you know your worth, feel held in your big feels, whose reassurance lets you settle into your being? Maybe holla a big thank you at them today for teaching you how to come back to yourself.