11/11/2025
đ„ The loss of someone we love can shake the very foundation of our sense of safety and belonging. When a person who has been a source of comfort, stability, or identity is gone, the world can suddenly feel unfamiliar and unsteady. Even when grief unfolds naturally, it can deeply affect how we see ourselves and how we move through daily life. For many, it brings waves of sadness, confusion, or even moments of numbness as the heart begins to navigate this new landscape.
When loss occurs under traumatic circumstances â whether sudden, violent, or marked by distressing memories â the grief process can become even more complex. The body and mind may hold on to the pain, replaying moments that feel impossible to release. In these cases, somatic connection becomes essential â helping the body feel safe enough to process what the mind cannot yet make sense of.
If you or someone you know is struggling with grief, please share this post: therootedheart.ca/blog/when-grief-meets-trauma-finding-meaning-presence-and-healing
It also has recommendations for several books on Grief, Meaning, and Healing.
By David Kessler, Brené Brown and Megan Devine