11/27/2025
In DBT (dialectical behaviour therapy), we talk about Rational Mind, Emotional Mind, and Wise Mind.
Think of them as three places you can “stand” when making decisions:
🧠 Rational Mind: Facts, logic, plans, spreadsheets galore.
💛 Emotional Mind: Feelings, impulses, reactions, intuition.
🌿 Wise Mind: The overlap. It is where intuition and reason meet. It is the quiet, grounded inner voice that says, “Here is what is true and what matters.”
Research in DBT shows that practicing Wise Mind helps lower emotional reactivity, improves decision-making, and increases our ability to cope with stress.
✨ Quick Tip:
Try a 30-second pause.
Put one hand on your belly and one on your chest. Take a slow breath.
Ask: What do I know to be true? What actually matters right now?
This small pause helps shift you out of Emotional or Rational Mind and into Wise Mind.
Why it matters:
When you practice Wise Mind, you make choices that align with your values, not just your impulses or anxieties. It helps you navigate conflict, set boundaries, and respond instead of react.
Therapy can help you strengthen this skill so your decisions feel calmer, clearer, and more grounded, even on the messy days. 🌿