01/23/2026
My s*xuality is sacred.
This may feel contrary to parts of modern s*x positivity, but for me, s*xuality is not just an act or a release. It is my spirit. It is my creativity. It is a life force that lives within my body.
Sexual energy is creative energy. It is the same energy that births ideas, art, intimacy, connection, and life itself. Every time we engage s*xually, whether with another or with ourselves, we are moving and releasing that creative force.
I understand why the s*x-positive movement emerged. It came as a healing response to generations of shame, repression, and fear around s*x. And like most healing movements, the pendulum swung hard in the opposite direction.
For me, it has swung so far that we have forgotten something essential.
Our s*xuality is sacred.
It is not meaningless.
It is not neutral.
It is not separate from our soul.
Who we share ourselves with, and when we share ourselves, matters energetically, emotionally, and spiritually. Sexuality is not just physical. It is an exchange. A communion. A merging of life force.
A sacred interaction.
And when I honor my s*xuality as sacred, I honor myself as sacred.
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