02/17/2026
A few months ago, my daughter asked me to teach her how to make sushi rolls.
I said yes right away.
Of course I’ll teach you. That sounds so fun.
And then… I didn’t.
Not because I didn’t want to.
But because it felt like a thing.
I’d have to figure out where to get the seaweed.
Find the right sushi rice.
Look up how to actually roll it properly.
Make sure it turned out okay.
It quietly became one of those “I’ll do it soon” promises.
And “soon” turned into months.
On Valentine’s Day, instead of doing something big or fancy, we finally did it.
I went to the store.
Bought the seaweed.
Bought the rice.
Watched a 10-minute video.
And we rolled sushi together at the kitchen counter.
That’s it.
And here’s what struck me:
It wasn’t hard.
It wasn’t complicated.
It didn’t require perfection.
It just required starting.
So many of the things we avoid — whether it’s cooking sushi, having a conversation, setting a boundary, starting a habit — grow in our minds. They feel heavier. Bigger. More overwhelming.
But once we take the first step?
Now I know where to get the seaweed.
Now I know which rice works.
Now I know we can do this anytime.
And I’m pretty sure sushi rolls are going to be part of our future in a way they never would have been if I kept waiting for the “right” time.
This is self-trust.
Not in the dramatic, life-altering way.
But in the small, quiet way.
Keeping the promise.
Taking the step.
Showing up.
Inside my 30-Day Self-Trust Challenge, this is exactly what we practice — noticing the thing that feels bigger than it is… and gently doing it anyway.
Because self-trust isn’t built through massive leaps.
It’s built through seaweed and rice. 💛
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We start with one small step.
And then another.