Kathryn Anne Flynn

Kathryn Anne Flynn Registered Psychotherapist · Author · Yogi
🧠 Trauma, relationship + neurodiversity
🫶🏻 Psychology, somatics + mindfulness
⬇ Therapy + Resources ⬇

There’s still time to join me for Reunite: Cultivating Quiet Within — a weekend of sweet, supportive practices (includin...
10/06/2025

There’s still time to join me for Reunite: Cultivating Quiet Within — a weekend of sweet, supportive practices (including someone else doing the cooking!), reconnecting with your body, and remembering your place in the living world.⁣

This image is from a “bird meditation,” one of my favourite moments of every retreat — a simple act of stillness and trust that always feels magical to me.⁣

If you’ve been craving quiet, reflection, and community, this is your invitation.⁣

✨ Registration closes October 10.⁣

📍 October 17–19, 2025⁣

🪶 Galilee Centre, Arnprior⁣

Link in bio or visit kathrynanneflynn.com/offerings⁣



I love couples therapy, but I’d like to rename it 𝘳𝘦𝘭𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴𝘩𝘪𝘱 𝘸𝘰𝘳𝘬. Relationship work isn’t just about fixing what feel...
09/29/2025

I love couples therapy, but I’d like to rename it 𝘳𝘦𝘭𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴𝘩𝘪𝘱 𝘸𝘰𝘳𝘬. Relationship work isn’t just about fixing what feels broken. It’s about learning to show up for each other with more presence, care, and understanding.⁣

Whether you’re navigating conflict or simply wanting to deepen your connection, couples work can be a profoundly healing process / for the relationship and for each partner individually.⁣

A new **free** meditation is now available on Insight Timer - designed for those moments when relaxation feels like a di...
09/23/2025

A new **free** meditation is now available on Insight Timer - designed for those moments when relaxation feels like a distant dream.

This track guides you into a very detailed body scan, designed to hold your attention more steadily than practices with long stretches of silence. I wrote it with my clients healing through CPTSD in mind, but regardless of our experience, we can all need a little extra support at squirrelly times.

I share these practices on Insight Timer for clients and beyond because the platform is both free and intuitive.

✨ Browse my meditations for children and adults on Insight Timer here: https://insighttimer.com/kathrynanneflynn

When autistic and "neurotypical" people communicate, there’s a higher chance of misunderstanding - not because either gr...
09/11/2025

When autistic and "neurotypical" people communicate, there’s a higher chance of misunderstanding - not because either group is “bad” at communication, but because cross-neurotype relating is like cross-cultural relating.

Research shows that mixed groups playing “telephone” distorted the message 25% more often than either **autistic-only** or **neurotypical-only** groups. That’s powerful evidence that communication differences are mutual.

This lens can bring relief and validation to couples navigating cross-neurotype dynamics. Therapy offers a space to slow down, untangle misunderstandings, and build ways of relating that honour both partners.

✨ If this resonates, reach out to connect about relationship work (i.e. "couples therapy") with me at The Wren Centre

Being together and on retreat makes for a special container for practice and resourcing. I'm so excited to spend this ti...
09/08/2025

Being together and on retreat makes for a special container for practice and resourcing. I'm so excited to spend this time together.

Reunite is a 2-night retreat designed for the liminal space of autumn. Programming includes movement, meditation and breath work practices alongside guided talks, journaling and group work. No prior experience necessary.

This retreat program includes:
- Gentle yoga and meditative movement to support grounding and presence
- Guided talks and discussions on the neurobiology, psychology and philosophy of mind/body connection
- Guided and free time in nature
- Creative expression including art and guided journaling to reconnect you with your inner voice and clarity
- Opportunity to cultivate stillness, experience shared silence, and shared reflection

Reach out with your questions or learn more at www.kathrynanneflynn.com/offerings

09/04/2025

Black + white thinking makes yoga difficult:

Too much rigidity in the mind shows up as black-and-white thinking: it has to be this, not that. In the body, rigidity can feel like constant muscle tension - tissues locked into “hold” mode instead of moving with ease.⁣

When your muscles are braced, your mind is more likely to brace, too. And vice versa!⁣

If you notice yourself caught in “all or nothing” patterns, see if you can also notice where your body is holding on too tightly. Sometimes the way back to mental flexibility begins with letting your shoulders soften, your jaw unclench, or your breath flow more freely.⁣

09/02/2025

the river of wellbeing, a metaphor coined by developmental psychiatrist dan siegel, flows between two banks: chaos on one side and rigidity on the other. many overachievers grip tightly to rigidity, even though chaos is how trauma has been conceptualized for years. ⁣⁣naming it with compassion helps us step back into the river’s flow - where safety comes not from control, but from connection. ⁣⁣💌 share this with your 𝙘𝙡𝙚𝙖𝙣𝙞𝙣𝙜-𝙞𝙨-𝙢𝙮-𝙨𝙖𝙛𝙚-𝙨𝙥𝙖𝙘𝙚 𝙛𝙧𝙞𝙚𝙣𝙙. :)⁣⁣

In May I came to the sumptuous, supportive cabin retreat of  and worked away at the opening chapters of my next book. No...
07/15/2025

In May I came to the sumptuous, supportive cabin retreat of and worked away at the opening chapters of my next book. Now that I’m here on vacation with my family, I’ve brought printouts of what I have so far. I’ve crossed out quite a bit and scribbled ideas for replacements or reworking in the margins.⁣

One of those writing days in May, I felt so swept up in the process that I struggled to fall asleep that night. Every creative knows how hard it can be to press the gas, and how equally distasteful it feels to pump the brakes once you finally find momentum. I realize that when I get into that energy, I risk inhabiting and energy that writes as if this is not the 𝘧𝘪𝘳𝘴𝘵 draft but the 𝘰𝘯𝘭𝘺 draft - which is both absurd and naive.⁣

The writer and mentor Anne Lamott says:⁣

“You don’t care about those first three pages; those you will throw out, those you needed to write to get to that fourth page, to get to that one long paragraph that was what you had in mind when you started, only you didn’t know that, couldn’t know that, until you got to it.”⁣

The creative act is often described as birthing, but it’s so unlike it. To birth - to bring forth - evokes something arriving fully complete, unique, and perfect. But writing is iterative. Unlike sculpting from stone, you can subtract, add, and rearrange to finesse. If you scrap what you wrote, that’s not a failure of the material. Its purpose was served: revealing what needed to be there so your vision becomes clearer.⁣

Accepting this with more grace feels like the biggest difference I’m noticing between my first book and this one. How lovely to experience personal evolution by daring to be creative.⁣

✨ New on the journal: Reading What My Bones Know - A Guide for Readers with CPTSD ⁣⁣I wrote some reflections on finally ...
07/11/2025

✨ New on the journal: Reading What My Bones Know - A Guide for Readers with CPTSD ⁣

I wrote some reflections on finally picking up Stephanie Foo’s excellent memoir about complex trauma and some guidance for readers with CPTSD. I do recommend her book to clients, and offer some thoughts on reading it without being overwhelmed by comparative suffering. ⁣

If you’d rather listen than read, there’s an audio version of the post too.⁣

Find it at kathrynanneflynn.com/the-journal⁣

𝘊𝘢𝘯 𝘸𝘦 𝘣𝘦𝘢𝘳 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘶𝘯𝘣𝘦𝘢𝘳𝘢𝘣𝘭𝘦? 𝘏𝘰𝘸 𝘵𝘰 𝘬𝘦𝘦𝘱 𝘢𝘯 𝘰𝘱𝘦𝘯 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘳𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘭?⁣⁣Nick Mulvey’s lyrics to 𝘈 𝘗𝘳𝘢𝘺𝘦𝘳 𝘰𝘧 𝘔𝘺 𝘖𝘸𝘯 have been fol...
07/03/2025

𝘊𝘢𝘯 𝘸𝘦 𝘣𝘦𝘢𝘳 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘶𝘯𝘣𝘦𝘢𝘳𝘢𝘣𝘭𝘦? 𝘏𝘰𝘸 𝘵𝘰 𝘬𝘦𝘦𝘱 𝘢𝘯 𝘰𝘱𝘦𝘯 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘳𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘭?⁣

Nick Mulvey’s lyrics to 𝘈 𝘗𝘳𝘢𝘺𝘦𝘳 𝘰𝘧 𝘔𝘺 𝘖𝘸𝘯 have been following me around lately. (Full lyrics follow.)⁣

The season of ease - 𝘀𝘂𝗺𝗺𝗲𝗿 - does not carry a guarantee; no season does. Especially as our concentric circles of concern have widened globally beyond what we were designed to bear witness to - death, loss, illness, injustice, violence, betrayal - realities that cannot be resolved by willpower or logic alone. ⁣Spiritual practices that help us feel connected - to what or to whom is up to the seeker - buoy us through the awareness of so much tragedy. We want practice to feel good, and it can, but it is not just a treat, it’s also a salve. Spiritual practice is for being able to “keep an open heart in hell” - learning to feel everything or, rather, to be with every feeling.⁣

It’s the ground we prepare so our hearts can stay open when everything in us wants to close. Not to become invulnerable, but to become available and return - again and again - to our capacity for reverence and presence.⁣

Music has always been an integral part of so many spiritual traditions. If you don’t have a prayer of your own, Nick Mulvey’s is available for you to try on:⁣Spiritual practices that help us feel connected - to what or to whom is up to the seeker - buoy us through the awareness of so much tragedy. We want practice to feel good, and it can, but it is not just a treat, it’s also a salve. Spiritual practice is for being able to “keep an open heart in hell” - learning to feel everything or, rather, to be with every feeling.⁣

It’s the ground we prepare so our hearts can stay open when everything in us wants to close. Not to become invulnerable, but to become available and return - again and again - to our capacity for reverence and presence.⁣

Music has always been an integral part of so many spiritual traditions. If you don’t have a prayer of your own, Nick Mulvey’s is available for you to try on:⁣

🍁 Reunite: Cultivating Quiet Within - a retreat program to support presence⁣October 17–19, 2025⁣Registration open⁣⁣There...
06/06/2025

🍁 Reunite: Cultivating Quiet Within - a retreat program to support presence⁣
October 17–19, 2025⁣
Registration open⁣

There is a moment in the turning of the year - after the gathering, before the letting go - when something in us knows it’s time to come back to ourselves. ⁣

Reunite is a two-night autumn retreat program held during this pause in the season. Through gentle movement, breath, creative reflection, talks and personal exploration - all buffered with time in nature - we’ll explore what it means to slow down and reconnect with the quieter rhythms of the body.⁣

Whether you’ve been busy giving, growing, tending, or striving, you’re warmly invited to pause, listen, and soften into being.⁣

🍂 Details and registration at kathrynanneflynn.com/offerings⁣

You’re welcome to reach out with any questions. ⁣


🎧 New podcast! On this episode of The Juggle is Real, I join Andryanna to talk about co-regulation, repair, and the hard...
05/29/2025

🎧 New podcast! On this episode of The Juggle is Real, I join Andryanna to talk about co-regulation, repair, and the hard (and hopeful) truth that so many of us are parenting while healing ourselves.⁣

We talk rupture, repair, bodymindfulness, and what it looks like to build emotionally safe relationships with our kids while still figuring out what that feels like for ourselves.⁣

This conversation is tender and practical. I hope it lands gently and offers something useful.⁣

🎙️Find the episode wherever you get your podcasts.⁣

https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/the-juggle-is-real/id1588568425?i=1000710405872⁣





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