Meghan Gilholm: Funeral Officiant

Meghan Gilholm: Funeral Officiant Compassionate and experienced funeral officiant. I offer religious or secular (or in between)services

11/17/2025

She didn’t stop talking about the baby because she “moved on.”
She stopped because people got uncomfortable.

Because grief makes the room go quiet.
Because loss makes others change the subject.
Because society has never known what to do with a mother whose baby never made it earthside.

But her love didn’t fade.
Her pain didn’t disappear.
Her baby didn’t become any less real just because others didn’t know how to hold the conversation.

She carries that little life in a place no one can see,
and sometimes silence is the only safe place she has left.

11/10/2025
11/03/2025

Tissues needed

10/28/2025

The important stuff is embarrassingly simple.

10/25/2025
10/09/2025

So much of her stayed. Her love. Her influence. Her legacy.

For those that know the pain of losing a mother— “Now That She’s Gone: A Daughter’s Reflections on Loss, Love & and Mother’s Legacy” available at all major retailers. https://hopeandharshrealities.com/book/

My hope is that you find it beautiful and comforting—inside and out.

10/09/2025

Grief doesn’t just live in your mind. It settles into your body.

People talk about heartbreak like it’s emotional, but your body feels it too. The tension sits in your shoulders, your jaw, and the back of your neck, proof that grief lives everywhere, not just in your thoughts.

Your chest tightens because every breath reminds you—you’re still here and they’re not. Your stomach knots because loss floods your system with stress signals that never fully shut off.

You’re not imagining the exhaustion. Grief keeps your body in fight-or-flight long after the moment has passed. Your energy drains fast. Sleep doesn’t refresh you. Food tastes off. Some days you wake up sore like you’ve been running, even though you barely moved.

Your brain fog isn’t weakness. It’s your mind protecting you from overload. Concentration slips because your brain is busy trying to keep you upright in a world that no longer makes sense.

It shows up in headaches, tension, back pain—aches that doctors can’t trace. That’s your body remembering, holding, translating love into something physical.

You’re not lazy. You’re not broken. You’re grieving.

Your body is just keeping score.

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