11/17/2025
Our ability to empathize is one of the most beneficial connection tools we have as parents. But it must genuine to "work." When our empathy is genuine it can have a powerfully calming effect, particularly in the early years with children. I imagine that’s because our babies and toddlers are limited in their ability to communicate thoughts and emotions, so they’re not accustomed to feeling understood. When that happens… Whoa! What a wonderful surprise! They not only feel heard and understood, but also have the reassurance from one of the extremely important adults in their lives that it’s perfectly okay for them to feel what they’re feeling. It’s no wonder empathy can make children feel instantly better.
Yet for all the inspiring stories I hear from parents and professionals about the miraculous power of empathy, I also hear concerns about empathy not working... I discuss that in my article:
"When Empathy Doesn’t Work" which is free to read on my website and I'll link it here in the replies. I hope it's helpful to you! x Janet
