11/10/2025
As the holidays creep closer, a lot can start to bubble up.
Stress. Guilt. Grief. Overwhelm. Joy. Loneliness.
Sometimes all in the same day ā or the same hour.
Thereās pressure to show up, keep it together, be grateful, feel festive⦠even when your body might be running on empty.
For some, this season brings connection and warmth.
For others, it brings reminders of whatās missing ā people, places, or versions of yourself you thought would still be here.
If thatās you, youāre not broken. Youāre human.
Your nervous system is responding exactly how itās designed to when thereās too much, too fast, too soon ā when the expectations, the noise, the decisions, and the āshouldsā start stacking up faster than your body can process them.
It might look like shutting down, snapping quicker than usual, over-functioning, or feeling numb.
None of it means youāre doing it wrong ā itās your body trying to protect you from overload.
At Aruma, we talk a lot about presence over performance.
You donāt need to earn your rest or your joy.
You donāt need to fake being/feeling āokay.ā
This season might be an invitation ā to notice whatās no longer working, to explore new ways of relating, or to find steadier ground for yourself, your family, or your child(ren).
Support can be the thing that starts to shift old patterns, soften the pressure, and make room for something different.
Our team is here to help you explore what that could look like ā together.